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 Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 6:40 am
This is how I know that our country is still a conservative and traditional even though some says that we are becoming liberated.
Here in our country being a virgin when your single is the norm if you're not a virgin and single Oh boy! you're automatically a whore/slut/sinner/have irresponsible parents/problem child/etc. to the society.
Sex is a big deal for everyone and is inappropriate to talk about esp. in front of the elders. its a hot topic and you can't talk about it casually, because if you do you don't have manners and a perv to most.
That's why a controversial Bill in our country which highlights sex education, abortion and use of contraceptives for family planning (not for premarital sex) is still on the process (yes, abortion & sex ed. still not implemented in our country, and casual sex/premarital sex/sex outside marriage is a BIG nO NO! ) and I think most likely than not that Bill will not be passed.
I'm 20 and Yes I'm still a virgin and that'll be the case till I got married that I'm sure of. I'm getting very very curious though and anticipating it a lot though I don't have a boyfriend right now ;D lol gaia_kittenstar
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Posted: Wed Nov 28, 2012 5:43 pm
It's better to be a virgin at that age in my opinion. I am 15 and STILL one. Even though some people do. I am saving my first time for after marriage (not for religious purpose. I just want to give it to the man I love.) Don't listen to the girl though. She reminds me of this one girl that hates me now for no reason.
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Posted: Wed Nov 28, 2012 6:21 pm
Oh that disgusted me. I'm saving myself for marriage. I'm 18.
A lot of people in college are not though. sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Nov 28, 2012 6:38 pm
Being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of. I'm 18, I'm a virgin. Not once have I ever regretted not having sex. Then again, I have a vow of celibacy sooo, lol. But you shouldn't listen to a girl who says that all she thinks about is sex. If she really, really cared about you, she would respect your decision to stay a virgin, not try to force you to have sex with some druggie. The only reason it seems like Virgins are rare is because the ones who aren't virgins don't shut up about it. XD
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Posted: Wed Nov 28, 2012 6:39 pm
Don't feel, bad, I didn't lose my virginity until I was 18 and if a girl has a lot of sex, who cares? As long as shes being smart about it, there's nothing wrong with having sex. Yes, it would be great to wait for someone that means something to you but there is nothing wrong with deciding else wise. Just follow your instincts and do what you think is right.
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Posted: Wed Nov 28, 2012 6:49 pm
I'm 16 and a virgin. I'm saving myself for marriage. My sisters aren't though. It depends on the person.
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Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2012 9:19 pm
Don't you dare feel bad!! Be strong!! I was 17 when I gave mine to a guy I had known for like three years, but looking back I wish I had waited until I turned 18 when I meet my bf. I don't regret it or anything, its just that I wish I was able to say that I saved myself for someone special. Wait until you are ready. It's nothing to be ashamed of.
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Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2012 10:39 pm
Sweetie dont EVER feel bad. Im 22 and still a proud virgin. Yes people around me, my friends have had it before me but all of them have told me its not worth it. They even applaud me that I thought about this. Its trusting your instincts, no one knows if your ready but you. If you think you found the person then it was meant to be. Its dangerous rushing into this type of stuff because ive known one firend to be in abusive relationship and what made it worst was all the pregancies scares and the fact he wanted to impregnate her so he could have control over her.
Trust yourself, the time will come when you are ready and really dont listen to that girl. She sounds very much like my friend and as they say revenge is being successful. Be the bigger woman and be proud of who you are! You never know when sex will go wrong and make things much more complicated
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Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2013 7:41 pm
First year in college 18 soon to be 19 and still a proud virgin. If your "friend" is pressuring you to do such things you can
1. Ignore her and still be her friend (but dont get per pressured)
2. Stop being her friend
3. Tell her how you feel when she talks about sex in such a manner to maybe help stop those conversations
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Posted: Sun Jan 13, 2013 11:49 am
I lost my virginity at 21 to the man I love after being with him for 4 years. He respected me and waited until I was ready and it was worth it :3 I'm engaged to him now. I suggest you take your time and wait for someone who is special to you if you feel that way. When I was your age people would ask me the same thing what is wrong with you or if there was something wrong with my sex drive. I just didn't have it in me to have sex with anyone so I chose to wait. If you decide not to wait though there is nothing wrong with that either. Sex is a choice and a freedom and no one should be labeled a slut for doing something that is human nature.
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Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2013 2:27 pm
I was 18 before I had sex the first time. Waiting until after high school isn't unusual, and it's not a bad thing. :] I'm sorry you've been made to feel badly for it. Radiant Mercy i believe sex should only be enjoyed in marriage. that way, your ready for anything, such as pregnancy.. Right, because once you're married, you're ready for a pregnancy. lol
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2013 7:52 pm
J e n R e i Wow. I'm sorry but your friend is ******** whore and a bad friend. No friend is suppose to pressure their friend into sex if their not ready. I am almost 18 and I am still a virgin. And I am a nerd but I just don't look it but I get a lot more respect because I am still a virgin and just don't have sex with anyone. Sex should be with someone special that you love and someone that loves you back. Ur friend is going to end up getting hurt or prego. girls like that do. And its annoying,when people see that you are nerdy or look a certain way the assume your a virgin and then if you loose you virginity you look like a new person and act a certain way. I am in my last year of high school and there are very few virgins. even people that are nerds aren't virgins. Just wait till the time is right. People act like being a virgin at 16 is the new 40 year old virgin. I agree with this (also your avvie is cool) I was a virgin until I was 18 and when I lost it I regretted it! Don't let your friend bully you! I know people who are older than me now (22) that are still virgins and that is OK. It's your body, don't let someone else tell you what to do with it. And I totally think your opinion of when to have sex is a lot more decent and mature then your friend. I see 16 as the minimum age to have sex, but I also don't really think it is that appropriate either.
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Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2013 9:49 am
I find that there are more benefits to being a virgin.
When I was your age, people in high school also picked on me for being a virgin. I'm 20 and in college right now, and I'm still a virgin. It seems also that guys like virgin, respect them more too. So don't be worried or ashamed of it or anything.
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