Are you a virgin?

[elusivebreath]

Twighlight Mira

Yeah, it's rough when I'm horny as all get out and Hubby's sick or tired.
I don't get bitchy, but I do get kinda pouty.

O_o The parent in me wants to ask what the hell you were doing with a man five years older than you, but that would be unfair considering Hubby's four years older than me.
Tell you the truth, I might do the same if I found Sophie with an older man.
HOPEFULLY I won't have to worry about it until she's eighteen or older...

Oh, I know! I have a 17 year old and 13 year old and that would NEVER happen. Unlike my parents, I actually know where my kids are and who they hang out with! Unfortunately, when I was a teen my parents were divorced so my dad lived 40 minutes away and my mom had to work a lot. As a consequence I was unsupervised a lot and I got in trouble - A LOT. I've really tried to go the opposite way with my own kids!  

[Momma Mira]

Divorce is a horrible thing, especially when kids are caught in the middle.
Wrong thread for it, but a bad example is my sister's divorce, wife-beating and post paturm depression are involved, and my niece, who is a few months younger than my baby is caught in the middle.
And if that weren't bad enough, the only people supporting Katsy are me and Hubby and mom. And mom isn't exactly the most supporting person right now considering she lost dad to cancer in July, after a 27 and a half year marriage.
Katsy is regressing into a teenager rather than dealing with the situation at hand, so my niece gets to play with my baby a lot, which isn't necessarily a bad thing. Odds are, I'm going to have an unofficial daughter though.

And I will know who her and Sophie's friends are, the friend's parents, and every possible place they could be!
And they'll have a curfew!

Um... sorry about the rant there... The moral is "Don't sleep with the man you just met who claims to be a war hero."

ninja  

[-RenKairui85-]

I'm a virgin and sick of it. stare  

[Nada Kyo]

No, I am not.

The person I was with no longer is with me, but I do not regret that I gave up that part of myself.

I have sex when I feel it's right...which for me is extremely rare.  

[MojinR]

-RenKairui85-

I'm a virgin and sick of it. stare

Don't be. Losing your virginity is an overrated experience for either gender. And for one, it hurts. (Still can't see how you women do it...)

I'm not a virgin but I'm not sexual active either. I'd rather wait for someone meaningful to step into my life before I start having sex again.  

[TruOtaku]

I still am. I havnt found anyone i trust to get that close to me. (been hurt alot)  

[sirthink1]

Ok. I'm not a virgin. Lost that after meeting my gf, whom I'm still with.

I do have a question: Did anyone else think that first time was clumsy and awkward?  

[Delirium of the Endless]

I waited until I was 20 and it was with a friend who I trusted and always had some tension with. 4laugh Anyways, I can't say we were ever a couple, but I was glad it was with him. I was raped with I was 8 and 19 so I had to make the choice and I chose someone I trusted and loved in my own way. Though not romantic love it was a love none the less. Anyways, I'm 25 now and I've only had sex with 3 guys, my boyfriend of 2 years still finds that hard to believe, but it's true. It seems like most women these days don't have enough respect to be picky about who they have sex with.
So, no I didn't wait till Iwas married, partly because I don't know if I will ever get married. But I have the untmost respect for those who choose to wait and even more respect for those who actually follow through with that promise to themselves.  

[Kaoru 81]

Nope, being married and all.

Oh man....yes I remember my first time. I was 18 and had fallen head over heals for this 22 yr old. We'd been together about 6 months and he already said he planned to marry me when I finished college. Anyway one evening one thing lead to another...we just got started and then he quits, turns away from me and starts crying. I'm all confused (What?!?! This is my first time, was I THAT bad!?) No, no, that wasn't it, he was upset because we had sinned. neutral

It's funny now looking back..and no, we didn't wind up getting married...he decided 3yrs later I wasn't Christian enough...

 

[Momma Mira]

sirthink1

Ok. I'm not a virgin. Lost that after meeting my gf, whom I'm still with.

I do have a question: Did anyone else think that first time was clumsy and awkward?

Don't worry, it's perfectly normal to be clumsy and awkward. No one ever knows what they're doing. 3nodding
And then it takes a little bit of "practice" to figure it out.

After that it's all good though. Nice thing about monogamous relationships.

@ Delirium of the Endless It's good to be picky! I'm 27 and have only been with two others besides Hubby.

@ Kaoru 81 O_o All I can say to that is "idiot" (obviously directed to him). Some people are just crazy.

ninja  

[tigris cobaltchaos]

i am almost 26 and am a virgin. even worse i have never had a boyfriend or have been kissed. i have no idea how it worked out this way other that in high school i was painfully shy. in college i was more concerned with doing my best and just hanging out with friends. i was also that girl, and eclipse by my friends who had boy friends. now there just is nothing. i am not waiting for anything other than the right, safe moment. but i am not waiting for marriage or anything. i like being single. sex just seems awkward. dating just does not seem like priority right now. i would like someone to fall in love with me though, instead of having a love sick crush. i feel weird now.  

[Siumbering Princess22]

i lost my virginity when i was 16 to a guy i stayed with till i was 20. I'm a good girl! I never really thought I'd wait for marriage I just wanted it to be with someone I was comfortable with and someone who meant something to me.  

[MojinR]

tigris cobaltchaos

i am almost 26 and am a virgin. even worse i have never had a boyfriend or have been kissed. i have no idea how it worked out this way other that in high school i was painfully shy. in college i was more concerned with doing my best and just hanging out with friends. i was also that girl, and eclipse by my friends who had boy friends. now there just is nothing. i am not waiting for anything other than the right, safe moment. but i am not waiting for marriage or anything. i like being single. sex just seems awkward. dating just does not seem like priority right now. i would like someone to fall in love with me though, instead of having a love sick crush. i feel weird now.

Why do you feel weird? Is it odd to have priorities where sex isn't even in the top ten? Cause if so I think me and alot of others are weird too.  

[BlueMoonButterfly25]

Me... 23.... not a virgin. Lost my virginity to my husband 4 years ago on out wedding night. He is the only one that I have ever been with. Yay me!