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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 6:30 am
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 11:19 am
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Really? A woman's job? Last time I checked, that's something patriarchal men on a pedestal invented, because one little 8-hour job for five days a week is sooo back-breaking.
Oh cry me a river; Housework and child-rearing never ends.
Now I'm not one of those over-the-top women who sneer at any woman who chooses to be a housewife (how dare she choose, because feminism is about what other women want, not choice, right?). If I ever become a mother, I'm not going to work unless I absolutely have to, I'm going to give my kids time.
But I'm still going to get a good education and form career options. The future husband in my life is not a guarantee, and God forbid, if anything were to happen within the marriage, I want to be able to pick myself up and stand up. Because I'm human. Because I'm the daughter of Adam and Eve.
Oh Sanju, so philosophical
Well, you haven't had any kids yet or been married yet, right? :/ I just got a baby sister who I'm old enough to be the mother of, and trust me when I say raising a kid is like two full-time jobs. And housework is a full-time job in and of itself.
And what will the husband do? Only earn? One full-time job? Give me a break.
If I'm going to marry a man, he better be man enough to understand the difficulties and help me out, like a real man, a real manly husband would.
Real men aren't afraid to wash a few dishes.
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 11:30 am
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 11:33 am
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 11:37 am
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 11:52 am
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 11:56 am
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 11:57 am
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c e r u s a n j u Really? A woman's job? Last time I checked, that's something patriarchal men on a pedestal invented, because one little 8-hour job for five days a week is sooo back-breaking.
Oh cry me a river; Housework and child-rearing never ends.
Now I'm not one of those over-the-top women who sneer at any woman who chooses to be a housewife (how dare she choose, because feminism is about what other women want, not choice, right?). If I ever become a mother, I'm not going to work unless I absolutely have to, I'm going to give my kids time.
But I'm still going to get a good education and form career options. The future husband in my life is not a guarantee, and God forbid, if anything were to happen within the marriage, I want to be able to pick myself up and stand up. Because I'm human. Because I'm the daughter of Adam and Eve.
Oh Sanju, so philosophical
Well, you haven't had any kids yet or been married yet, right? :/ I just got a baby sister who I'm old enough to be the mother of, and trust me when I say raising a kid is like two full-time jobs. And housework is a full-time job in and of itself.
And what will the husband do? Only earn? One full-time job? Give me a break.
If I'm going to marry a man, he better be man enough to understand the difficulties and help me out, like a real man, a real manly husband would.
Real men aren't afraid to wash a few dishes.
married for almost 2 years, son is 15 months old :]
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 12:11 pm
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 12:16 pm
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 12:17 pm
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Since it was ignored...
Amarah Couture @nomo- i dont believe true lesbians exist. Please explain. Especially in regards to how you apparently know my orientation better than I do.
Amarah Couture i also said he didnt want another kid. so, it coudlnt happen. even if he did want another, it turned out to be a girl, and i was told to keep it- id starve it if i must get rid of the damn thing xD Wooooooooooow. Just... I don't even know how to respond to this.
Simplest one, though: If it's between what you want (not to raise a girl) and what he wants (you to raise a girl), defying your husband and killing the kid seems to go against the whole 'men are superior' thing.
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 12:20 pm
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 12:21 pm
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Amarah Couture c e r u s a n j u Really? A woman's job? Last time I checked, that's something patriarchal men on a pedestal invented, because one little 8-hour job for five days a week is sooo back-breaking.
Oh cry me a river; Housework and child-rearing never ends.
Now I'm not one of those over-the-top women who sneer at any woman who chooses to be a housewife (how dare she choose, because feminism is about what other women want, not choice, right?). If I ever become a mother, I'm not going to work unless I absolutely have to, I'm going to give my kids time.
But I'm still going to get a good education and form career options. The future husband in my life is not a guarantee, and God forbid, if anything were to happen within the marriage, I want to be able to pick myself up and stand up. Because I'm human. Because I'm the daughter of Adam and Eve.
Oh Sanju, so philosophical
Well, you haven't had any kids yet or been married yet, right? :/ I just got a baby sister who I'm old enough to be the mother of, and trust me when I say raising a kid is like two full-time jobs. And housework is a full-time job in and of itself.
And what will the husband do? Only earn? One full-time job? Give me a break.
If I'm going to marry a man, he better be man enough to understand the difficulties and help me out, like a real man, a real manly husband would.
Real men aren't afraid to wash a few dishes.
married for almost 2 years, son is 15 months old :] I stand corrected on that. But the rest of my point still stands --none of which you replied to, by the way. Oh and what a nice superiority smirk you got there missy. But it's a bit hypocritical don't you think, starving off baby girls? Considering you were one once.
If everyone had the same mentality as you there would be no "good wife" for your son as well. Honestly? Women like you disgust me, while there are women suffering all over the World, you sit in a privileged position and tell them that their situation is as it should be. Why am i even wasting my breath. :V
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