I don't really remember my bed being messy when he was younger though. sweatdrop But I guess he always liked playing in one location, didn't move his stuff around much.
Posted: Tue Jun 24, 2014 2:10 pm
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Starphyr
I don't really remember my bed being messy when he was younger though. sweatdrop But I guess he always liked playing in one location, didn't move his stuff around much.
Louisaaaaa. Did you see my last quote to you? ; w; Gosh I'm sorry that took forever, I really didn't mean to put off answering you. ♥ I'm happy to see you! How are you? 4laugh
Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2014 8:29 pm
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I understand how you feel. You know it's not right to forgive him because he's still being shitty, but you don't want to hate a man who is going to die soon. I'm not really sure what I would do in the situation. I don't think I could get myself to forgive someone acting that way, but I've never been in that situation, so I can't say if that's exactly how I would feel living through it.
We have to not give into his scheming ways lol. I mean it's not like he was crying or anything, but even in that case he probably wouldn't have gotten it if he wanted to cause a scene. >.> Oh man. xD Kids sure are something.
✿ I've managed to forgive him as much as I can. It's just been so crazy and I never thought I would be in that situation. The good news is, we're back on our feet. Mum sold one of her cars and she's going to be okay now. I can finally breathe! sweatdrop
Haha, I don't know how you do it, as a parent I mean. My friend is now raising a nearly four-year-old and a 6-month old. I just think, "wow, she's amazing!" And the little ones know when they are causing a scene. I've seen it in supermarkets! And I've also seen parents lose their tempers and cause an even bigger scene. I hope I'll never be one of those parents who screams at their kids. In public, anyway. >.<
That's really good. c: I'm glad things are looking up for you!
I don't ever scream at my son in public, even if he's being a little antsy. In fact I don't even do it at home. I don't remember if I ever REALLY screamed at him. Sure, I'll use a stern voice, and sometimes it might sound a little angry, but that's about it. But yeah, kids certainly know they're causing scenes when they get into it. They do it just to get what they want, which could probably aid in parents just deciding to scream because they don't appreciate their kid acting like that to get something out of it, but it can always be handled better than that.
Things aren't looking to great right now for our car though. It broke down, so now my husband has to stay with his friend so he can get to work. We're not sure when we'll be able to fix it, so I don't know when he's going to come home. Things were starting to look up, and it just kind of.. came down again. We were about to get a bed but we had to cancel on it for now, which really sucks, so soon I'll have to be sleeping on the floor because right now I'm using my brother's bed, but they're going to need it when my stepdad's family comes down here for a visit.
But the one good thing is that I was approved for medicaid. I'm going to be able to see a doctor soon. All I have to do is choose a plan and then a doctor who accepts it. I really can't wait to do it.
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