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Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 9:25 pm
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Hey people, well, im in a real pickle, i dont have a clue what to do...
Here's the sitch, one of my reall really good friends, or i guess you could call him a best friend, I have a MAJOR crush on, but i think it could possible be a little more than a crush, but i dont know, anyway, i like this guy soo much that I want him to be happy, and i was going to ask him if he would to go out with me, but before i could i found out that he is now going out with his dream girl, and that broke my heart... and know i dont know what i willd o, because i really still want to go out with him, but now i can't, and i really want to stay friends with him, but his new girlfriend is competitive, so she might get jelous of me, if we even stay friends, and he's os happy with her, so i dont want to be friends with him anymore, because i couldn't live up to myself if i was the reason that they broke up... so HELP what do i do??
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Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 9:58 pm
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anticlockwise123 Hey people, well, im in a real pickle, i dont have a clue what to do... Here's the sitch, one of my reall really good friends, or i guess you could call him a best friend, I have a MAJOR crush on, but i think it could possible be a little more than a crush, but i dont know, anyway, i like this guy soo much that I want him to be happy, and i was going to ask him if he would to go out with me, but before i could i found out that he is now going out with his dream girl, and that broke my heart... and know i dont know what i willd o, because i really still want to go out with him, but now i can't, and i really want to stay friends with him, but his new girlfriend is competitive, so she might get jelous of me, if we even stay friends, and he's os happy with her, so i dont want to be friends with him anymore, because i couldn't live up to myself if i was the reason that they broke up... so HELP what do i do??
I dont think you should stop being friends. if the girl gets jealous she needs to get over herself because im positive that he is not going to stop having any friends that are girls just because she says so. and if you guys are best friends i doubt that he will stop talking to you. im sorry your hurt. it happens. i liked this boy that was like my one of my closest friends to find out that he goes out with someone else. it was frustrating but i got over it. but yes i dont think that if they break up you will be the reason, and if you are its really not your fault because it could have happend because of any other girl. sorry if it sounds confusing. sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 10:08 pm
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Posted: Sat Dec 01, 2007 6:49 am
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Posted: Sat Dec 01, 2007 4:35 pm
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Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 7:44 am
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Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 9:32 pm
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Calypsophia anticlockwise123 well, thats sort of what I was thinking about, but he has known her, and liked her, for longer than he has known me, let alone been friends with me... and that's all fine. are you afraid that you feel closer to him (friendship wise) than he feels towards you? do you feel his character is weak enough that he would let her dictate who he can hang out with and who he cant? or is he stronger and more mature than that? do you know for sure that she would do this? if so, why not explain your fears to him. that's not to say reveal your true feelings for him, but reveal your fears and see what he'd have to say to you about it. if you're really already that close to him, he'll be willing to listen. Just make sure your fears arent founded on jealousy. and remember this... bfs and gfs come and go. especially in ones younger years.
OK, thanks, i took this advice, and I talked to him about it, So it's all better now, only still a bit awkawrd... He said that he would rather keep me as a close friend, and loose his girlfriend, than to loose his best friend over some girl.
Thanks for the advice, it really helped out alot, but now she's heaps jealous of our friendship, we both think so...
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Posted: Wed Dec 05, 2007 7:17 pm
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