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 Posted: Sun Feb 01, 2009 7:09 pm
Okay, here's the background:
im bi. My boyfriend told me that if i really had a crush on a girl that i could date her. He told me that if me and her lasted forever that all three of us could move in together and that i could do whatever i pleased with her. He just wants to make me happy.
now the problem:
And the thing is, I do have 2 crushes right now. girl number 1 i've known since 8th grade (im in 10th now). She has had a crush on me for awhile and i know she would be okay with me having a boyfriend. girl number 2, i have the biggest crush on her, more than girl number 1, and I really want to ask her out but i dont know if she would be okay with me having a boyfriend. Im so confused. Should i even get a girlfriend and surpress my feelings? Or should i try to ask one out and talk out EVERYTHING with them, everything that my bf said and make sure its okay with them??
plz dont be to harsh on me. im already hurting from this and other things, plz be gental.
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Posted: Tue Feb 03, 2009 8:15 am
i would just stick with your boyfriend. ive had plenty of friends who have tried 3 way dating like that before and it never ends well at all. heck when i was younger i even tried it once, i was upset and crying quite alot because of jealosy (sorry for my spelling) issues. ive never seen a 3 way dating thing that worked out in the end or even ended with no one having their heart torn apart
i strongly advise against it but at the end of the day its your choice. i am happy you are trying to put alot of though into this and asking for advice, that shows maturity right there
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 7:10 am
and its ok i think you and him should still be together and u can date a girl that u like im not really good at this stuff....heh..... mrgreen
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 10:26 pm
I agree with Shanna. Stick with your boyfriend.
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Posted: Sun Feb 08, 2009 2:57 pm
Id say ask them both. and then let them know that u asked more than one person.
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Posted: Tue Feb 10, 2009 3:56 pm
=] thank you guys so much =]] you help alot
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