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Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 6:20 pm
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I had a boyfriend in middle school that I broke up with years ago because a) he was moving an ocean and a continent away and b) he made me feel terrible most of the time (I later learned in high school what he was doing was called "emotional abuse"). Anyway, since he's moved he periodically calls my house every few months to check if I'm still single and pry into my life.
The first couple of times, I politely asked him to stop calling. After that I was more stern, and finally, last time (which was a few months ago) I practically yelled at him outright that I am not interested in him anymore and that I hate it when he calls me, so he should stop.
Well, someone has been calling my house lately and hanging up when one of my parents pick up the phone. We don't have caller ID, but this is what my ex did last time, so both I and my parents figure it's probably him.
The thing is... I have no idea what else to say to him. I thought for sure the stuff I said last time would make him stop. But he just won't quit!
I've tried telling him I'm not single, that I don't miss him, I've yelled at him to stop calling my house, I told him what he did is called emotional abuse, I've hung up on him after I finished yelling... I have nothing left to say. But he keeps calling! ARGH! >_<
So, has anyone ever had a persistent ex before? How the heck do I get this guy to stop calling my house?
(And "change your phone number" isn't an option because I already asked my mom and she said it would be too much trouble to do that)
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Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 6:36 pm
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Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2010 2:41 am
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Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2010 4:55 am
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MiaIkumis#1Fan Death At Will hmmmm....sounds like my ex except te abuse. he would tell me that he loved me and so on. giving me cds to listen to...which explained for him in song. i had to write him the nastiest latter a girl could ever write. i didn't mean to hurt his feelings, but that's how i really felt about him. my ex boyfriend calls me his freind and nothing more then that. so you should tell him how you feel and pour it all out. tell him how he treated you and get into details about how you felt about it. then tell him how you feel about him now....again the details counts. goodluck! wink He acts like he doesn't care. OR he starts crying. -_- Honestly, it'll be kind of hard for me to go into detail about something that happened 4 years ago. I guess I can try, though. One of my friends suggested I change my voice (a talent I've recently acquired in the last couple of years) and when I pick up the phone, lie to him and tell him that the family who lived here moved out and then give him a bad number for the "new number". But I'm not sure if he'd believe me or if he'd even take the hint and stop calling. Well that is an idea and what not to try, it's better to try than do nothing, am I right or no? You tried over and over telling him you don't want him and you don't love him anymore yet he still calls. I can give you some ideas right now: 1) If he ask if you're still single tell him 'no' even if it's true or not and see if he understands that you don't need nor want him.
2) He has beening bothering you for awhile now so I assume he just wants you back or bothering you. So you can also file a report for harassment, not sexual harassment but like stalker-ish.(Sorry I forgot the wordi was going to put)
3) if you can temporarly disconnect your phone when it's around the time he calls you and after then he'll notice that your phone's been disconnected and maybe stop for some time.
Those are some ideas if you need more I can put more.
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Posted: Tue Mar 30, 2010 4:37 pm
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Posted: Tue Mar 30, 2010 4:40 pm
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Posted: Tue Mar 30, 2010 5:05 pm
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Posted: Wed Mar 31, 2010 12:53 am
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Posted: Wed Mar 31, 2010 6:03 pm
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Posted: Thu Apr 01, 2010 8:03 pm
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