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 Posted: Sat May 01, 2010 8:00 pm
I need some help or at least advice. I honestly, think that my guy friend really really likes me but I don't feel that way back. I don't know what to do either because we obviously don't talk about this and I don't want to bring it up to give him false hope. I feel so bad. The reason why I think this is true is because he posted on his wall "Why am I always stuck in the friend zone?" I know that I'm probably his closest girl pal. We don't hang out outside of school but everytime I'm online he comments and tries to keep the conversations going. He also compliments me A LOT and listens to me all the time. He waited for me after school one day while I talked to my teacher and then asked if I had a club meeting to go to(by the way, we walk home together because we both have to walk the same route). I don't know what to do. It's quite awkward because I don't want to cut him off completely or anything but I don't want to hurt him.
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: Sat May 01, 2010 8:02 pm
Sorry that I got a "little" exclamation happy. Haha xd
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Posted: Sun May 02, 2010 8:50 am
Oh jesus. I'm in sorta the same situation as you are.
Except we aren't that close.
Ever since I broke up with my boyfriend, he's been more... friendlier towards me. Talking to me more, etc.
I've been talking to him on this website, and he's been telling me I'm beautiful and "perfect". Blah. He asked me out.
I'm just going to play oblivious and when he outright asks me, I'm going to try to let him down gently.
Um. I wish I had more advice for you, but really don't.
Good Luck!
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Posted: Sun May 02, 2010 3:49 pm
Thanks for sharing your situation!! I'm glad I'm not the only one dealing with this. It's weird because they never TELL you how they feel but you can tell by their actions.
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Posted: Sun May 02, 2010 3:59 pm
Ugh, gosh. Yes.
I wish he'd just tell me.
It would make it all less awkward. D;
The sucky thing is, I think I'm about to put myself in the reverse situation.
There is this guy at school, and I like him and all, but I don't think he knows?
I'm going to tell him on Monday though. [ ohjesus, that's tomorrow ], so I can just get it off my chest. I don't expect him to like me back though.
Um.
I'm still waiting for Nick to tell me that he likes me or whatever, so I can just tell him no. So far, nothing...
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Posted: Sun May 02, 2010 5:04 pm
I know!!!!! It would be so much easier if they just brought it up themselves. By the way, good luck with the other guy!!!
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Posted: Sun May 02, 2010 9:10 pm
Oh boy.
He just asked me to go to the movies with him on a date.
Not a friend date.
I told him no. :C
Well, nicer, but...
No reply yet.
Gaah.
Thank you!
Good Luck with your guy too.
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Posted: Mon May 03, 2010 12:06 pm
Hopefully, he's not too hurt but it sounds as if you handled it properly and in a mature fashion. That's what I worried about with my friend but I'm not going to date him out of pity either. Luckily, he's never asked me out.
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Posted: Mon May 03, 2010 11:19 pm
Maybe you could start a conversation with your friend about why the "friend zone" is not so bad. For instance, you trust him more, you can talk about anything, and you don't fight as much. You might get a reassuring confession out of him, like "Oh, well I was really talking about this other girl I like". Or he might bring up liking you, and you could let him down gently, which would be aided by the fact that you just said nice things about having him as a friend.
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Posted: Tue May 04, 2010 1:22 pm
That's a good idea. I haven't alked to him lately though. But that is wonderful advice. Thank you.
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Posted: Sat May 08, 2010 11:59 am
Click here to read why guys and girls cannot be friends.
Not that it's impossible, but it's very rare, and very difficult.
Trust me, almost all of my friends were guys at one point, and sexual differences always got in the way. The only exception is if they're gay.
So, expect this sort of thing to happen when you get close to guys.
You can have guy friends, but don't expect to be able to have a super-close emotional bond with them forever with no drama happening.
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Posted: Thu May 13, 2010 6:07 pm
gosh, i have the exact same problem, exept we arent best friends. when he brought it up i told him i wasnt allowed to have boyfriends.try doing that.it is pretty annoying when that happens,though.
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Posted: Thu May 13, 2010 6:31 pm
It can happen that you can be best friends with a guy, especially if he is not attracted to you. (No guys or my guy friends are attracted to me so I'm in the clear only becasue I'm a loser.)
Anyway, its always best to wait and see if he's gonna say anything first, becasue there is a chance that he's just way nice, and you could embarass yourself.
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