Well, there's this guy. He's kinda cute, really nice, and has a lot in common with me, so it's not really surprising that I have something of a crush on him. I'm not sure if he feels the same way back, (one on my friends always says he does, but I'm not sure if she's being totally serious when she says that.) He always sits with my friends and I at lunch and so on, but it's not apparent whether he's there to be with a particular person or if he's just a bit sick of his other friends. (If it's the latter, I really wouldn't blame him to be honest.)
So basically, I want him to know that I like him, but I'm not sure how. I've been trying to subtly give him the message, but I don't know if he's getting it. Sometimes I'm tempted to just sit him down and tell him outright, but the last thing I want is for him to be weirded out and not want to hang out or anything at all. I'd much rather to just be friends with him than not be anything, 'cause he's great for conversation and stuff.
Oh yeah, and all this probably isn't helped by the fact that there are semi-serious rumours that I'm lesbian or bi. (I'm not denying them 'cause I don't really know myself, but that's not the problem at the moment.)
TL;DR: There's a guy I like and I don't know how to tell him, but I'd rather be friends than nothing so I really don't want to weird him out. I'm happy to wait for a while and see what happens, but if anyone has some good ideas then please tell.
So basically, I want him to know that I like him, but I'm not sure how. I've been trying to subtly give him the message, but I don't know if he's getting it. Sometimes I'm tempted to just sit him down and tell him outright, but the last thing I want is for him to be weirded out and not want to hang out or anything at all. I'd much rather to just be friends with him than not be anything, 'cause he's great for conversation and stuff.
Oh yeah, and all this probably isn't helped by the fact that there are semi-serious rumours that I'm lesbian or bi. (I'm not denying them 'cause I don't really know myself, but that's not the problem at the moment.)
TL;DR: There's a guy I like and I don't know how to tell him, but I'd rather be friends than nothing so I really don't want to weird him out. I'm happy to wait for a while and see what happens, but if anyone has some good ideas then please tell.
