So,
My boyfriend and I have almost reached the year mark in our relationship. Honestly, I don't have any complaints about it; he's smart, talented, never fails to make me laugh, and is very blunt with me, (which makes me respect him a helluva lot). However, he has one major flaw: he's into a few drugs.
Its not anything seriously major like meth...but I've been worried about it ever since I've met him.
And before anyone asks: I personally don't do drugs. At all. I can't even stand being around someone who smokes. My boyfriend is cool with that and has never tried to get me to do any of the things that he does.
My big problem is that now I'm starting to get the feeling that he loves getting high more than he loves me.
Like sometimes, (now increasingly), I'll be talking to him through text message or PM, (he's got a Gaia as well), and he'll just quit replying, then later on he'll tell me that he was high on something, (he's blunt with me, remember?), and that he forgot that he was talking to me and he’s sorry.
Normally, I would toy with the idea of breaking up with him and move on with my life, but I really am in love with this guy and I've been known to overreact easily.
I'm sorry if this post is hard to understand...I'm a little all over the place right now.
Please, can anyone help me out?
My boyfriend and I have almost reached the year mark in our relationship. Honestly, I don't have any complaints about it; he's smart, talented, never fails to make me laugh, and is very blunt with me, (which makes me respect him a helluva lot). However, he has one major flaw: he's into a few drugs.
Its not anything seriously major like meth...but I've been worried about it ever since I've met him.
And before anyone asks: I personally don't do drugs. At all. I can't even stand being around someone who smokes. My boyfriend is cool with that and has never tried to get me to do any of the things that he does.
My big problem is that now I'm starting to get the feeling that he loves getting high more than he loves me.
Like sometimes, (now increasingly), I'll be talking to him through text message or PM, (he's got a Gaia as well), and he'll just quit replying, then later on he'll tell me that he was high on something, (he's blunt with me, remember?), and that he forgot that he was talking to me and he’s sorry.
Normally, I would toy with the idea of breaking up with him and move on with my life, but I really am in love with this guy and I've been known to overreact easily.
I'm sorry if this post is hard to understand...I'm a little all over the place right now.
Please, can anyone help me out?