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I met him in Virtual Hollywood at least six months ago, but it feels like much longer. I've always had feelings for him, and it was pretty awkward when I first told him (long story...). He's always been my number one guy friend, and we've had so many heart-to-hearts, I can talk to him about ANYTHING.
I've always been able to tell he liked me or at least gave two and a half shits about me, because when I was dating a guy who claimed to regularly smoke pot and snort blow, he urged me to dump him so I wouldn't get hurt. He always seemed concerned about my safety and my happiness.
He's also really funny and he makes me laugh out loud at least once in every chat we have, minus during our one big fight (which I'll get to in just a little bit). He speaks Latin too, and when he'd translate what he'd said I'd always laugh, because it'd be something like "caress me with your teeth you sick son of a female dog", etc.
The first time we really had an arguement was after I told him I'd always liked him, and he told me to come to Towns because he wanted to tell me something. "Listen, Gabby... I'm gay." Of course my Bullshit Detector started beeping, and I sent him a PM: "Listen, when I said I liked you I wasn't ******** around. So if you're joking about being gay, it's not funny." he replied: "Sigh... I'm not gay. I just didn't want to tell you I had somebody.". It was like I had been shot in the heart. Of course I got jealous and then we proceeded to have a huge fight, mostly me fighting with the power of jealous crazy b***h. I said a lot of things I didn't mean and I wanted to swallow those words because I could tell I'd really, really hurt him.
I was scared out of my ******** mind after the fight and I had to make it right again. I didn't care how foolish I'd seem, I just wanted him to talk to me again. I sent him an apology that I fully meant. He sent a reply telling me that he was having one of those stupid Gaia weddings. For a split second the joker in me thought, "Maybe he wasn't kidding about being gay". I knew I had to come to the wedding though, because I owed him that much. I put on the only fancy dress in my inventory and headed to the "wedding".
At the end of the "ceremony", I announced that I had to logout. He replied "Wait Gax (my nickname). Thanks for coming.-pats shoulder-" I just about cried.
Then we started messaging again, shortly after I got a boyfriend via another online relationship, who was definitely cooler online. "Yeah right, you won't find somebody to love." "Actually, I'm dumping him." "Yeah, Erica* left me exactly a month ago." (*Name has been changed.) Then I told him I wanted to hangout the next day, y'know, Rally or something, and he replied "Text me. I won't be home." and gave me HIS CELLPHONE NUMBER! <3 <3
Holy crap. Holy mother of crap. I HAD HIS ******** PHONE NUMBER! This MUST mean something! So of course I hijacked my friend Heather's phone during a swim meet to text him. Then I stayed the night at her house to text him more, and of course because Heather is awesome. We texted alot that night and it made me feel special. That morning at around 8, I even texted "Rise and shine. smile " to which he replied "No." "Don't make me get the water bucket. wink " "What the HELL?" xD Clingy and a tad obsessive, YES, but really, really funny.
So then on Gaia he told me he loved me for the first time. I inhaled sharply and actually put my hand over my heart. "SQUEE~<3"
Before I left for vacation, I left him tons of messages like "Last chance to talk before I disappear for 9 days!" and even went to the lengths of getting up at 6:30 and sneaking downstairs to send those messages since I was grounded.
When I got back from vacation he started kinda ignoring me... while I was in Rally discussing my concerns with a close friend, he popped up. "Speak of the devil." "What? Bad time?" "No. Actually... ********. PM me." "I'll just leave. I messed something up."
His message summed it up perfectly: "What the hell?" I told him how I felt, ignored and like he didn't love me anymore. I asked if he did and he said "I did. But then you got all obsessive over nothing (me) and obsessiveness and paranoia is a slight turn off for me." "I turn you off? Y'know what. I'm gonna try to be better for you. Actually, ******** trying. I'll BE better for you. You're worth fighting for. I'mma put on my big girl panties and make this work. You ith me?" "I just cried... because of how awkward that was." "Fine then. I'll put on my big girl panties and you'll put on your banana hammocks and we'll make this work! <3"

And that's the summary of our entire relationship. What's your opinion?

im sorry but its a bad idea to be dating online like u never know if the person ur with is a freaky old man that likes to luwer (sorry i cant spell it sweatdrop ) kids by saying he has free popcicles and who the ******** doesnt like those so of course the kids go in his house and get raped hahaa
sorry for that but what im trying to say is that maybe u shouldnt really worry so much about this guy and be in a real realation ship

Sounds like a stupid idea to me.
You really can't love someone you don't even know
You don't know what he does every day of his life and you sure as hell don't know his life style. That just will never work.

Uh.
My opinion: that was never a relationship to begin with.
Dating online, never having met irl.
And you "love" each other.
Oh, hun. That is not "love." Perhaps odd affection but certainly not love.
The fact that your "number one guy friend" is online slightly worries me.
Perhaps you should consider unplugging that computer for awhile.
Friends offline, particularly boyfriends, are much more valuable than random buddies on Gaia.