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 Posted: Sun Aug 15, 2010 11:20 am
I'm stuck between me ex and my currnet boyfriend. sad I like them both. My ex made me feel alive but didn't treat me right. My currnet boyfriend treats me right but I don't feel alive with them a lot. The worst part is the are both in band * which I am in* and the same mini school.
Thewy both have this about them that I love. I just can't choose. Should I go with the one I've know for years and treats me right; or the on I me 6 months ago and make me feel alive.
Please try and help me. Should I just be single for a little while, go out with other people, or choose on of them.
~Band neutral
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Posted: Sun Aug 15, 2010 11:26 am
Im thinking you should stay single for a while, they each have something you like, and something you dont, One day you will find a guy that treats you right, and makes you feel alive
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Posted: Sun Aug 15, 2010 11:35 am
[~+~] Well, for starters, definitely don't go back to your ex if he didn't treat you right.
Secondly, i would also say you should stay single for a while, and then try other guys. As Vanna said, you will eventually find a guy that treats you right and makes you feel alive.
To be honest, i wouldn't go out with anyone in band - it would just present problems. >.<;
Especially as it's a "mini school".
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Posted: Sun Aug 15, 2010 11:36 am
But I reallly REALLY like them both A LOT! My currnet boyfriend and I have only been dating like a week too! I'm so cunfused and UPSET and stressed and I FEEL STUPID!
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Posted: Sun Aug 15, 2010 11:37 am
We are in middle which= mini schools. And I'm in band too!
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Posted: Sun Aug 15, 2010 12:11 pm
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Posted: Sun Aug 15, 2010 8:58 pm
Just stay single for awhile.
Even if you pick one you'll still have feelings for the other.
If your current boyfriend doesn't make you feel alive, then that means he's not the right one for you. If your ex didn't treat you right, then don't go back. It'll probably end the same way.
Just think like this: if you choose one of them you'll always have problems. You had problems with your ex and you don't feel as alive with your current. There's someone out there that, as Vanna said, "will make you feel alive and that will treat you right."
Don't stick yourself to second best.
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Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 8:22 pm
Well i think you should stay with your boyfriend
& just try doing exciting things
or things you havent done
then maybe that will help making you feel alive
& get u in a rush
dont go back to your ex i mean it didnt work out 4 a reason right
& you dont deserve being treated bad
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Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 8:37 pm
stay single, figure yourself out a little more. and dont go back to the one who was bad to you.
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 7:29 pm
 Do not go bad to your ex. You stated he didn't treat you right and 9 times out of 10, guys don't change.
You should try sticking it out with your current boyfriend a little longer, just to see if things get better. Try giving him a peck on the cheek or try holding his hand out of no where, or anything else you may be comfortable with.
If things don't seem to be going anywhere with your boyfriend, it might be good to stay single for a while, as other gals have said, and figure out what your needs are so when you're ready to date again, you'll know, or at least have an idea, of what you're looking for.
Not sure if this will help, but in my experience, dating a guy in a band will have it's problems. My last ex was switching around different bands playing bass, but it seemed like doing his band things was more important than spending time with me. Sometimes I would want to see him, but the band trumped me each time.
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Posted: Fri Aug 20, 2010 11:49 am
I think you should stay single.
It doesn't help the guys if you're going inbetween them, and it hurts you more.
You seem to need a break from boys right now.
Lol, and I love how big of a deal 'they're both in band class' is. Haha. Been there, band class + boys = drama!
Do both the boys and yourself a favour and take a nice break.
And don't go back to your ex. If he treated you right once, chances are that he's going to do the same. Don't settle for second best, look around and you'll find someone that both makes you feel alive, AND gices you the treatment you deserve.
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