ok this is gonna sound really stupid........well my bf cheated....for a few months....i found out, broke up........well.....soemone asked me out i said yes hes nice enough but........well a:hes an outcast so now all of my freidns hate me....and b: i kinda miss my ex he was the only person who actually knew who i am and could make me happy......did i do the right thing? im pretty confused still.....and i should be happy.....btu if im so happy then why do i feel liek crying?
Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 12:33 pm
It doesn't sound stupid at all.
Do what you feel is right, if you really want to be with your ex again, just make sure you're prepared to deal with him cheating on you again, because it may happen, despite the words he may say to make you think otherwise.
As for your new boyfriend, don't just break up with him because of his being an outcast, if you really like him, just ignore the fact that your friends hate you for it. I think its terrible for them to think that way.
If a man cheats once he will most likely do it again. You did the right thing by breaking up with him. Now if you like this outcast guy then more power to you, go out with him. It's YOUR life NOT your friends life tell them to shove it and to be happy for you, if they cant except you because of a boy then that aren't true friends and you deserve better.
Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 1:13 pm
~so, what if ur ex made you happy and all that. does that mean no guy out of the billions of people on this earth WILL NOT liek you?? and honey, if u go back to him, he WILL cheat again. he cheated on you for MONTHS. did he fight for you? did he TRY to win you back?!?! NO . leave that dip s h i t ~secondly, ur friends aren't ur friends. u deserve respect and so does that guy ur dating. ~third, if u don't like the guy just dump him already! but if you DO like him, stay with him. DUH. ~lastly,don't force yourself to move on when your not ready.
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