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PostPosted: Mon Oct 11, 2010 5:24 pm
I can't be the only girl out there that's fallen in love with a gay man. :s
He's my best friend now, and life's content with the whole "We're just friends" thing, but I can't recall how many times I've wanted to "pop the question" Yes. I honestly love this man. And he's told me many times, that if he didn't like d**k so much, he'd ask me too.

But anyway, who else has been through this? Just out of curiosity O.o  
PostPosted: Mon Oct 11, 2010 6:11 pm
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I've never been attracted to men, let alone a gay one, but I've had crushes on straight women. It sucks, cause you know you can never be with them. What irritates me is when someone tries to "turn" a gay or straight person. Seriously. It's not going to happen, forget about them and move on with your life.

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 11, 2010 6:11 pm
Sorry, all of my friends are either straight or bi except one (that I know of) and we only have a friendship relationship.

Does he actually feel the same or just say that to comfort you? If he does then why shouldn't he give it a shot? I mean, the emotions are there.

Have the two of you considered an open relationship? It could be hard but they do work out for some people.

Other than this, I have no advice. If he doesn't want a relationship with a female at all (other than friends) then there isn't much you can do, sorry =(  
PostPosted: Thu Oct 14, 2010 1:18 pm
Oh, I know never to bother trying a relationship with him. But it doesn't change the fact that I fell for him. And really hard at that >.<
I am moving roughly 400 miles away. He doesn't want me to move, but I really need to get out of my state. I already found where I want to spend the rest of my life, and my parents are urging me to get out of this state ASAP, so I can spend my life the way I wish.  

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 14, 2010 1:23 pm
Of course I've had crushes on gay men, because usually gay men are really good looking.... or just are attractive in one way or another.  
PostPosted: Thu Oct 14, 2010 3:44 pm
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