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Posted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 12:37 pm
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Posted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 12:44 pm
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Posted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 12:48 pm
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Posted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 12:53 pm
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Posted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 12:54 pm
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Dagger1819 Simply Berry It's not even people.. D; I could care less what people think Or my friends, really Just that one person that birthed me I would be so messed up if she abandoned me or treated me different for something like this x__X; I don't know what to doooo ;-; What do you do when the parent doesn't approve of the relationship? That's like the biggest thing, other than friends not approving Which.. they do.. but I don't think they suspect it'll last I don't know either, really.. I should probably just live in the now But why do that when I could end up hurting everyone, including myself, in the end x__x I wish lesbian/gay relationships weren't such a big deal.. This shouldn't even be an issue *rambles* .... I don't see them as a big deal. neutral But that's how I was raised, with a "Who cares? They're just people" Sorta attitude. Berry. You gotta be true to yourself. Your mom may not like it, but there is nothing you could do about that, but give her time to get used to the idea. neutral
I don't know if she ever will... :[
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Posted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 12:56 pm
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Posted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 12:57 pm
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Dagger1819 Simply Berry *kicks self in the gut* I mean really? Would she be happier if I were with some abusive gang-banger from Compton just cause he's MALE D; That's not cool at all But if that's her wishes... Would she rather I die alone? v_v Is that what I'm destined for? I feel like sooner or later I'll have to choose one of the other My mom or.. my ginger And that's not faaaair :[ I can't handle being in such a position... And even if I DO tell her, I'm sure she'll think it's just a 'phase' Something I need to get out of my system before I marry that token guy she wants me to marry v___v;; Maybe I'll just end up being alone.. I won't hurt anyone that way, right? As much as that's a terrifying fear of mine Well if you're with Your Ginger for long enough, she may learn it's not a phase. o_o Who knows those two may even bond a little bit. *shrug* People can surprise you, sometimes.
*clings to* I hope you're right Dagz D;
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Posted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 12:59 pm
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Simply Berry Dagger1819 Simply Berry *kicks self in the gut* I mean really? Would she be happier if I were with some abusive gang-banger from Compton just cause he's MALE D; That's not cool at all But if that's her wishes... Would she rather I die alone? v_v Is that what I'm destined for? I feel like sooner or later I'll have to choose one of the other My mom or.. my ginger And that's not faaaair :[ I can't handle being in such a position... And even if I DO tell her, I'm sure she'll think it's just a 'phase' Something I need to get out of my system before I marry that token guy she wants me to marry v___v;; Maybe I'll just end up being alone.. I won't hurt anyone that way, right? As much as that's a terrifying fear of mine Well if you're with Your Ginger for long enough, she may learn it's not a phase. o_o Who knows those two may even bond a little bit. *shrug* People can surprise you, sometimes.
*clings to* I hope you're right Dagz D;
*pets*
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Posted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 1:12 pm
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Simply Berry Maybe I'll just end up being alone.. I won't hurt anyone that way, right?
Just me...
Anyway, if you gotta tell her, start the conversation with, "I have something to say and it's going to make you hate me and disown me." That's what my psychologist told me to start with. Because then she'll know it's something serious, but give her a chance to say, "I'll never do that!" which you can sorta hold her to... It kinda softens the blow when you start it like that because she anticipates something like... murder.
I dunno, my mom doesn't understand my transgenderedness and is pretty much against it, but she hasn't disowned me... Yet. And she knows I like girls and knows I like YOU, even though I didn't tell her that you liked me, too. I dunno :[ People seem to be really against things until someone close to them ends up being that thing they're against...
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Posted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 1:12 pm
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Posted: Thu Nov 04, 2010 10:45 am
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