I have a very close friend that is a big brother to me, and I recently found out that he was attracted to me (he was the one who adopted me as his sister). In a nutshell, he was drunk--and when a person is drunk, a certain degree of truth comes out. Everyone at the party, including my boyfriend, found out that he was really attracted to me (based on his competitive attitude toward my boyfriend and his overly affectionate gestures).
My boyfriend says "the whole brother-sister bullshit is just an excuse for guy to see how he can 'win' the girl over. How else can he get away with putting his arm around your shoulder and hugging you with such affection while I, your boyfriend, am right there next to you?"
Question to consider: To what extent is that true? When a guy wants to be your "brother," is it just a secure way for him to get close? Or is it just the "protective big brother" attitude? Share your ideas.
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