Is it easier for gays or easier for lesbians to come out?

[Vinsmokin]

i think its probably easier for women, because gay men are made fun of as girly all the time, and are the steriotype for all gays, and guys think lesbians are hot, but girls dont think that about gay men.

also, in florida, where my cousins live(so i have valid, first hand info) its like, a trend to say your a lesbian, so i guess its easier there for the real ones. I wish i was there crying  

[Elementalists]

harder for guys i beleve becuase of all of the negativity and hatred. i've faced it myself but i never really am bothered becuase people don't know unless i say something.