Which is better? Single or IAR?

[eat more happy]

I went 19yrs being single, with just a few dates every now and then. Now it's been 6months and counting that I've been in this wonderful relationship. I could honestly do either one, but I'd much like to spend my time committing to my beautiful girlfriend unless time and fate decide otherwise.

Regardless of the time I get to have with her (be it a day or a lifetime), I've come to realize that being in a relationship with the right person (or what you may perceive as right) is beautiful.

 

[Ayame_Rikimayu]

eat more happy

I went 19yrs being single, with just a few dates every now and then. Now it's been 6months and counting that I've been in this wonderful relationship. I could honestly do either one, but I'd much like to spend my time committing to my beautiful girlfriend unless time and fate decide otherwise.

Regardless of the time I get to have with her (be it a day or a lifetime), I've come to realize that being in a relationship with the right person (or what you may perceive as right) is beautiful.

Agreed, I spent most of my life single, but I haven't been this happy since I started dating my boyfriend in forever.  

[AstridMiriam]

Single is good. smile

 

[switcharoo we can too]

My last relationship was when I was... 15 or 16.
Only lasted maybe 3 - 4 months due to me not putting effort into seeing him.

Then when I was... 17? 18? I had a crush on this guy.
Like, my heart would race and I would get playfully violent with him.
Didn't go so well, because after a week of "being together" I saw him with this other girl.
I got mad, he was also upset about something, we avoided each other until the end of the school year.

Since then, however, my mind has been whirling and gears turning.
Just going back to the times I was most happiest (or as happy as I could be, given I show little emotion aha).
Along the way, sometime between ages 16 and 19, I came to realise I didn't really like guys, at least not until I got to know them.

But long story short, since 10th grade I have always thought being single was better.
I didn't have to make effort to see anyone, or have my parents worry about me doing something stupid like my sister did.
But now, as I think about finding a girl who likes gaming and baking and other things... I kind of want that.
To do things I want to do with someone I genuinely like and not to worry about being weird or some s**t.
That and the surprise from my family will be glorious.

Too bad no one would have the patience with me, aha...  

[S St Stutters]

Hard to say. Depends on the person and condition... too complicated. Single.