Hi, there.
Lately, I've been frustrated with my soon to be step- father figure and sister. I don't mean to sound selfish or anything like that but let me 1st, state some important facts about my step sister; let’s call her "B."
Soon to be high school freshman
Very Homophobic
Impulsive
Loud
Obsessed with animals like (dogs, cats, horses)
Just to let you know these are things I’ve picked up from our first impression since I’ve only known her and her dad for a couple of months now. So far from my observations of two, “B,” overcompensates for her having no friends which I’m leaded to believe by her dad with pets. I have nothing against animals there are so many that it kind of scares me. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve tried to be her friend but she isolates herself from people so much and really seems to hate me for some unknown reason. It’s like she’s saying “I hate you,” every time she glares at me; maybe, because we are like polar opposites.
Her dad the on the other hand is very nice and my mom seems to really like him but he’s kind of push over and seems to have given up on his daughter in terms of parental control. Remember that’s just my opinion. I love my mom and want her to have I the greatest of happiness in life but I don’t think she or anyone else for that matter should have to put up with “B’s” rude behavior. Since I know 1st hand that our family as whole in past has been through some s**t. I surely don’t want to hurt and abandon my mom but I don’t feel a part of that family at all. Even my Dad and older sister keep saying I should stop tormenting myself like this. I’m at a crossroads and it’s confusing!
>_<;
Advice?
Lately, I've been frustrated with my soon to be step- father figure and sister. I don't mean to sound selfish or anything like that but let me 1st, state some important facts about my step sister; let’s call her "B."
Soon to be high school freshman
Very Homophobic
Impulsive
Loud
Obsessed with animals like (dogs, cats, horses)
Just to let you know these are things I’ve picked up from our first impression since I’ve only known her and her dad for a couple of months now. So far from my observations of two, “B,” overcompensates for her having no friends which I’m leaded to believe by her dad with pets. I have nothing against animals there are so many that it kind of scares me. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve tried to be her friend but she isolates herself from people so much and really seems to hate me for some unknown reason. It’s like she’s saying “I hate you,” every time she glares at me; maybe, because we are like polar opposites.
Her dad the on the other hand is very nice and my mom seems to really like him but he’s kind of push over and seems to have given up on his daughter in terms of parental control. Remember that’s just my opinion. I love my mom and want her to have I the greatest of happiness in life but I don’t think she or anyone else for that matter should have to put up with “B’s” rude behavior. Since I know 1st hand that our family as whole in past has been through some s**t. I surely don’t want to hurt and abandon my mom but I don’t feel a part of that family at all. Even my Dad and older sister keep saying I should stop tormenting myself like this. I’m at a crossroads and it’s confusing!
>_<;
Advice?