A Lesbian in Love With a Guy

[aw darn it]

Alright. So I've got this 'issue'.

I have guy-anxiety.
Boys touching me make me nervous.
Their whispering in my ear freaks me out.
Even them lowering their voice near me makes me jittery.
And I absolutely cannot be in a forest or woods alone with one.
Also, this isn't so much a problem now, but when I was younger I was deathly afraid of penises...

Anyways...
I usually stray towards girls, they're more visually appealing to me and certainly more comforting and well, I just really like boobs.

Buuuut,
I really like this guy, whom shares the same feelings.
And by like I mean, 'Hot damn, I love this guy!!'

Sooo,
I'm sure you can see the dilemma.

Now, we only met online and such and he lives up in our friendly neighbour country Canada, so he's not too far or anything.
I just get anxious because...

What if my boy-anxiety gets in the way of us doing anything, granted anything happened?

 

[juri han10]

well kitten as much as u love this guy if push comes to shove and u 2 have sex then u just turned bisexual alot of girls do that so If u like him give him a chance but if he only wants u for sex then we lesbians form a army and break every bone in his body twisted  

[Dreaming_Drifter]

Love knows no gender. If he loves you, and if your boy-anxiety does become an issue around him, he will be patient and loving, and he will wait for it to not be an issue. Otherwise, he is not worth your time.  

[Myzrath]

I don't think you should let these past fears get in the way of a new relationship. Try it out. If things get really bad, you can always leave. Tell him in advance that you're uncomfortable, and don't move too fast. You don't have to dive in headfirst - Just take it slow and see what happens. heart  

[MagiPuff]

If he really loves you he will give you time. You should see where it goes but don't go faster than you are comfortable with. And if he doesn't want to wait or trys to push things faster you can get a hitman.  

[RuntRen]

Agreed with mags