Help me please...

[sbaxter2010]

I need some advice I'm bi but I've never been with a female sexually. My fiancee was my first but he's never been able to satisfy me sexually the only thing that gets me off it being eaten out and he doesnt do that. Am I a lesbian? Ive never been attracted to him like that but I love him. I dont know what to do....help! sweatdrop gonk crying sad question mad  

[Destructive-Kiwi]

You're actually normal, not many ladies have an orgasm through traditional penetration. Hell, some don't even orgasm from being eaten out.
Sex aside, you cannot let that be the thing that defines your sexual orientation.  

[sbaxter2010]

oh okay thanks for the advice  

[finfageek]

You're only lesbian if you're attracted to women. So...yeah D:  

[sbaxter2010]

I am attracted to woman  

[Le Scratch]

That's something you must define for yourself. Generally speaking, you're a lesbian if and only if you're attracted to women and not men - this means men in general, not just your beau. He may simply not be attractive to you sexually, which is fine since you understand that but still care for him. It may be as simple as a desire to experiment with another lady or something more like a shift toward homosexuality instead of bisexuality.

I would suggest sitting down with him and having a talk about this and about how you feel with regards to your sex life. Ignoring that and continuing to be unsatisfied can lead to more problems.  

[The Laziest Czar]

Scratch always puts it so elegantly.