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Posted: Mon Sep 05, 2011 5:41 pm
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Posted: Mon Sep 05, 2011 5:46 pm
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Posted: Mon Sep 05, 2011 6:06 pm
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Posted: Mon Sep 05, 2011 6:47 pm
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I WAS, but it didn't work out in the end. He was in the air force. It wasn't honestly all that horrible, but he up and decided that it would be too hard on me when he got posted (which as it turns out, ended up being just 2-3hrs away). I miss having someone TO miss. Like, I'd rather have him living with me, but at the end of the day, it's not really a choice ya know. Like I'd rather be with someone I'm really in love with even if I don't see them that often, than have someone around all the time that I don't care for as much.
Haven't found anyone since him, but, I think the breakup was still for the best. He has a lot of maturing to do, and the distance just weeds out the good relations from the bad. Ours just wasn't strong enough. Maybe it woulda lasted longer if he'd been around, but, I think in the end the outcome would have been the same.
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Gabrielle_AnimalLuver Crew
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Posted: Mon Sep 05, 2011 7:25 pm
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Posted: Tue Sep 06, 2011 3:42 am
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Posted: Tue Sep 06, 2011 10:18 am
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Posted: Wed Sep 07, 2011 9:20 pm
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Posted: Thu Sep 08, 2011 3:57 pm
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Kipluck Honestly, almost all of my relationships have been long distance. Apparently it hasn't worked out. But I still believe they CAN work. I dated a guy who lived in Texas. We visited each other, but mostly just talked online and the phone. Then he took the occasion of Hurricane Rita to dump me the chicken way and cut off contact... in the middle of a freaking hurricane so that I thought he could have DIED... till he sent me a wedding announcement. Classy, eh? Then I dated a guy in California. We broke up over the phone because apparently he assumed I would turn into a girly girl once we actually were togetrher. I almost moved to California for him. I looked for jobs, almost rehomed my gliders (they are illegal there.) and I am forever grateful I couldn't go through with it... we were almost engaged when he told me the things he expected of me. Basically to be someone I was not. I am so so so glad I did not rehome my babies. I won't make that mistake again. A person who doesn't love me as I am (including the act that I own a little zoo), doesn't get me. Then, there was Ola. I'll be honest, I still love him. I don't know if I will ever find someone else. But he lives in Spain and neither of us has money. And there are other issues. But mostly, we don't have money, we don't have a way to be together. I wish I didn't love him anymore.
Kip, my boy hates animals for the most part, and he still payed for all of them to either be shipped here or in the case of that cat, come in the plane with me when we moved. Never give up your babies for a boy, lol.
Main thread: LDRs can work if you're both committed.
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2012 3:06 pm
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Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2012 4:47 am
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