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 Posted: Wed Aug 22, 2012 9:33 pm
Well after three years of being together my ex dumped over my sexual assault. It's okay the relationship wasn't great. He lied about his drug habits. He'd also hit me a lot of time. Every time we'd go out he would hit on every other girl and my friends. Oh and he also cheated on me. : After he dumped me two weeks later he wanted me back. He kept trying to get me back and into my pants and every time I told him no he would throw a pissy fit and call me names. One time I went to watch a movie at his house and he apparently was masturbating and decided to ejaculate all over me. I was so upset that night that I walked home. After that he got a nasty habit of driving by my house, my friend's houses, and calling me private. It's been almost two years after we broke up and he still drives by my house.
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Posted: Sat Aug 25, 2012 10:56 am
emotion_facepalm Oh God...exes. I only have two, and both of the relationships were short, but they are both so dramatic, and they've lingered everything out for an exaggerated amount of time.
1. Mykle
He was my friend back when we were in the 5th/6th grade. Well...not really. He was a major jerk back then. He used to hit me in my stomach and call me fat. I was overweight back then, but it still hurt. He also decided to make fun of every little thing that I did or liked, such as anime or drawing and even writing. He was one of the biggest jerks I knew. Then, out of the blue in the beginning of freshman year, he texted me and asked me out. I had changed a lot since then, which he says he gets, but honestly the last time I saw him was the 6th grade. I moved after that. Either way, I felt bad if I said no so we started dating. Right off the bat, I saw he had completely changed as well. He was crazy emotional about every little thing. I'm so happy it was a long distanced relationship. I lost count of how many times he told me he was crying over text. I just really couldn't take it for long. I broke up with him a little after a week, so it was an extremely short relationship, but he still causes me problems.
You know those exes that say "I want to be friends" but they really just mean "I want to stalk your every move"? Yep, that's him. He asked me out still after that and even told me he loved me. I was already way past him and was already planning to see someone else, but he decided at the worst of times to jump back into my life. He even asked if I could kiss him at my own birthday party. So I walked away from him and had my friend Oli knock some sense into the guy. I know, it may sound mean, but he doesn't not know when no means no.
2. Jon
Biggest mistake of my life. I met him in my freshman year because he was in my Spanish class. I was going through a lot of change(I just started to get out of therapy because of PTSD). I was changing a lot, and my friends were changing because of the obvious doubt. He was one of the first people that actually accepted me, which is why I started to like him. I grew a small crush on him, which I had told my friend. Little did I know she was a blabber mouth and told him. It was still only a small crush, but she made it sound drastic. He talked to me and told me he wasn't ready for a relationship, so he wanted me to wait. I said sure, but honestly had already gotten over him by the time he talked to me. I just saw him as a friend.
Two weeks later, he asked me out, and I said yes(I have a tendency to be too nice). He and I walked together after school to the park every day, but I really didn't like him like that. It was when he showed his true colors. He's childish(he says "I like tacos" every other sentence LITERALLY), and he is a major perv. I take a while to grow accustomed to things, like baby steps. I take my relationships slowly, but after a few days, he kissed me(my first, and it was awful, like putting a dried plum to your mouth). But I stayed calm. The next day? He started to add more to it...I'm not comfortable with it, so I felt very nerved around him. He also wanted to keep the relationship a secret(my pet peeve), but I said sure since I didn't plan to take the relationship seriously. After three weeks of dating, he started to grope me in...uncomfortable ways. So I broke up with him.
There were only a handful of weeks left of school after that, and he completely ignored me for the entire school year in our class. It was obviously just childish. He has the mentality of a two year old or something. Anyways, now, in my sophomore year, I still hang out with my friends from last year. They are unfortunately also friends with him. He had decided to hang out with us, but he completely ignores me, and he acts as though I'm not even there. none of my friends know about it because he wanted to keep the relationship a secret, so it's a quiet awkwardness between us two. I had attempted to talk to him maturely about it, but he seriously gave me a death glare and act as though I didn't talk to him. How immature can a guy get?
Safe to say exes are going to be the end of me.
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Posted: Sun Dec 16, 2012 2:15 am
His name is Daniel
He's a self centered, controlling, money grubbing two timing .
he would date a girl but be cheating on the side asking them for money or using a girl to get money from them . If i wasen't still living at his house i would never see him again
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Posted: Tue Dec 18, 2012 10:47 pm
Hoooo boy!
Well my first relationship experience was only this last year (Feb 2012). No, we did not get together on Valentine's day.
Linus was a super nice guy, real sweet, outgoing, and curious. I met him though a club and then later through robotics. Standard guy, does swimming. plays games, church goer (plus for me), but I found out the hard way that he thinks everyone automatically knows what he knows and is pretty shitty at communicating. Also one of those sexists. I'm pretty manly for a girl if I say so myself, the bro of women if you may, so I got pissed off in the end.
I was a sophomore and he was a junior. We only talked for a month and he asked me out to prom. I said yes, went to prom, and I completely regret it.
I didn't want to hang out with him more because I didn't want him to see my faults, but he insisted. Needless to say, I think he did find a lot of faulty things about me to ignore my IMs and play League instead,
Basically stopped talking to me 2 weeks after prom even though I made an effort to talk to him. Never actually asked me out or were "official" so things were left in a weird state.
Definitely moved on! Weird first relationship... now the other upperclassman I like (in college) makes jokes about me and Linus. There's nothing between us, but I don't know if this counts as an ex or not lol...
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Posted: Thu Dec 20, 2012 1:04 am
Even though I am nearly in my mid-twenties, I only have two exes.
The only ex I actually speak to is my most recent one. We weren't on good terms for quite a while, but now we're quite friendly to each other. I don't think we ever should have been more than friends; we work well as pals, but our relationship was AWFUL.
My ex before him was just absolutely bat-s**t crazy. I like to pretend he doesn't exist, and when I think about him (which is pretty rare) I actually feel quite sick to my stomach. :0/ I dunno if anyone else actually feels physically gross when they think about an ex, but yep.
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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2012 11:11 am
My ex was a doucher and took advantage of me. Glad I got out of that mess when I did. Unfortunately now, he won't leave me alone and is begging me to come back. Claim all you want that you've changed, but a zebra can't change their stripes.
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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2012 11:17 am
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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2012 10:26 pm
None of my ex boyfriends bothered me much until the last two.
Bradley
1. Dumped me because I was not black, even though he was as white as me!
2. Got married to a pregnant black girl, who got knocked up by some other black guy.
3. Said I was racist when one of my friends at the time was black.
4. In retaliation and out of anger I sent him a picture of my black poodle's a** saying kiss it.
Then there was...
Stephen
1. he was okay, then he joined the military
2. became less communicative
3. forgot and ignored me like yesterday news
4. Things would not have been so bad, but due to religion (he was pagan. I practice witchcraft) we were spiritually close as well. It tore me up pretty good.
But, that's okay. I have Zach now. He's a good guy. He has to be. I live with him.
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Posted: Sun Jan 13, 2013 5:19 pm
My ex was just a horny guy in general.Every time we talked he's like ''Wanna have s**?'' or ''Wanna suck my d***?'' Im like eek and rolleyes and it went on like that every day...but he was the kinda guy that was always flirting and s*** like that and then this new chick comes to school and he and some other guys are all over her flirting and s*** so we broke up...and now he still flirts with me and gives me tight hugs and s*** like that....but now i got my bby JJ,love you! heart
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Posted: Mon Jan 14, 2013 4:36 pm
I actually never got over my ex...we uh, got back together.
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Posted: Mon Jan 14, 2013 4:51 pm
ex 1: started ignoring me after awhile like i was nothing to him then i broke up with him and he got his and my friends to treat me like s**t. but a few wised up and are still my friends
ex 2: was nice but family issues make him take anger out on me and he broke it off and turned out our friend (gay boy) was secretly dating him. He tried to get back with me but i said no.
ex 3: it started out good but after awhile we just started to argue alot and he would start em to make me feel bad so we eventually broke up. we plan to get back together but it turned out he decided to be gay and date his friend
ex 4: was the last one. he is 28 and im 20. neither of us cared bout the age difference since he was so nice and caring. but after awhile his ex tried tog et with him and he lied and said he wasnt dating so they was bout to get together but she pm me and i explained and she was pissed as was i but i was stupid and accepted him back. then like almost a week ago i see on fb that he was dating another girl and announced it to their friends and we argued and turns out that he calmed that our love and s**t was just rp. and if i ever wanted a chance with him id need to move there. We had been planning on me going down there to texas and stuff. he seem so happy and i was to but he basiclly used me for sex, porn pics, and just something to keep him happy until he found someone else i guess. he never wanted to change his status to use dating cuz we wasnt in same state and towards the time of the breakup he was getting more busy. i knew something was up and tried to find out but claim it was just work. bullshit......
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Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2013 5:41 pm
My ex Alex.
We went out for a year. We had a pretty strong relationship. Till the day he came up to me with his friend and called it off, but said we could still be friends. I texted him often so we kept texting. 3 weeks later I texted him "Hi!" and he texted back "Get away from me you b****h" I was extremely confused and must have thought he meant to send it to someone else. I knew he wasn't like this though. Especially through text. I texted back that it was just me but he continued to call me horrible names such as "slut, prostitute, whore" Which were NOT true at all! I was so scared I just ended the text right there. We haven't talked for almost 2 years. I see him around and he gives eye contact, but doesn't say anything. I found out a week later he got back together with HIS EX he had before he was with me. Turns out his ex was my best friend back in elementary. I blew it off and just moved on and took him out of my life. Things would probably be bad if I was still with him. Glad I'm not though.
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Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2013 6:07 pm
Dated this asian for about a month. Was cute and funny at the time, but was so cocky bout many things. Later I started losing feelings for him so I broke up with him. Then he stalks me for like 4 months, and it was just dread-ful.
Finally he stops, but after a year later on my b-day, he writes a 3 pages of paper on how he was sorry, and cheated on me during the time we were going out, and that I should wear his necklace to be friends again. Hell to the no. Sadly I still see him at school, every other week, and I can't help but look, since im attracted to asians. -__-
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Posted: Sun Jan 20, 2013 8:53 pm
Oh, here we go again..-Sigh- Where do I begin? My ex boyfriend, well, he should be seen as insane by society. We were on and off for about a year until I recently broke up with him for the last time about a month ago resulting in him becoming blocked from any device I talked to him on, etc. His friends too were also deleted from the friends lists and such that I talked to them on. Anyhow, he was a writer and he absolutely loved Hentai. It was disgusting how much he liked porn in general. He was a sex addict and he wrote elaborate stories of sex and twincest and I was in love with him enough to look past all of these abnormal things. I had always felt inferior to him and that would never change, but one day I saw how unhealthy our relationship was. It was all so sickening and I still can't believe the fact that he guilt tripped me into sending him photos.. ugh..
Sorry for ranting.. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Jan 20, 2013 9:55 pm
You know, I'm actually a little guilty about my last breakup.
I was dating him for almost 2 years. The only thing he really ever did wrong was not know how to make me happy. To be honest, I broke up with him out of complete boredom. I'm starting to realize how much I meant to him, because I'm starting to feel it for someone else. I feel so guilty, for lack of a better word, because I must have really hurt him. I've always thought I was a really good person, but I'm realizing that I am the awful ex.
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