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PostPosted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 11:10 am


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My family has gay friends as well, but its a whole lot different when its your child. Honestly though, it not their decision to make.

I know. I need to stop being paranoid. And look at the solid proof. Proof that he cares about me and loves me. Sometimes I blame myself because I'm quite complicated, emotionally. >.< And stop standing around at school, expecting him to notice me, and go to him. XD

Thats the whole 'A relationship is a two way road' kinda thing. You gotta put a little effort in their. Respect and acknowledge his care for you, and if you wanna see him, don't wait for him, go to him yourself. Surprise him maybe.

No idea where he lives. He's in the same area, it's just BIG! So yeah xD And his mother's cautious about who he has in the house.

Understandable. Well, as you get older, you'll find that you gonna be able to leave the house more. I normally go out with my friends at any time I want. So, the older you get, the more you'll probably be with him. So don't worry about it now.

Yeah! But he and I are opposite when it comes to going out. I'm fifteen, and I've been allowed to stay out 'till 11pm, sleepovers, go out on my own, etc. I guess it's because I'm quite independent. My boyfriend (Robert) his mother doesn't let him go out a lot on his own and she usually wants him to help out around the house.

Oh I see. Well its all about the breaking away phase of one's life that determines when you go out more and what not.
PostPosted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 11:12 am


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Thats the whole 'A relationship is a two way road' kinda thing. You gotta put a little effort in their. Respect and acknowledge his care for you, and if you wanna see him, don't wait for him, go to him yourself. Surprise him maybe.

No idea where he lives. He's in the same area, it's just BIG! So yeah xD And his mother's cautious about who he has in the house.

Understandable. Well, as you get older, you'll find that you gonna be able to leave the house more. I normally go out with my friends at any time I want. So, the older you get, the more you'll probably be with him. So don't worry about it now.

Yeah! But he and I are opposite when it comes to going out. I'm fifteen, and I've been allowed to stay out 'till 11pm, sleepovers, go out on my own, etc. I guess it's because I'm quite independent. My boyfriend (Robert) his mother doesn't let him go out a lot on his own and she usually wants him to help out around the house.

Oh I see. Well its all about the breaking away phase of one's life that determines when you go out more and what not.

Yeah.

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 2:58 pm


Wait it out, talk to him on facebook, if all else fails, get rid of him.
PostPosted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 5:30 pm


Ah....my ex and i had the same problem.
I can't really do anything often and almost never return his texts cuz of my parents. An attempt to decrease the amount of time i'm grounded. It was really hard and frustrating for him so we talked about it and decided to cut it off.
So communication and patience is the only way to help in these situations.

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 19, 2012 6:55 am


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Ah....my ex and i had the same problem.
I can't really do anything often and almost never return his texts cuz of my parents. An attempt to decrease the amount of time i'm grounded. It was really hard and frustrating for him so we talked about it and decided to cut it off.
So communication and patience is the only way to help in these situations.

I'll see him in school, so that won't be bad.
PostPosted: Sun Feb 19, 2012 6:59 am


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Wait it out, talk to him on facebook, if all else fails, get rid of him.

I'm not getting rid of him. I love him, and I'm not going to end our relationship because of a temporary no-contact period.

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 19, 2012 10:39 am


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Ah....my ex and i had the same problem.
I can't really do anything often and almost never return his texts cuz of my parents. An attempt to decrease the amount of time i'm grounded. It was really hard and frustrating for him so we talked about it and decided to cut it off.
So communication and patience is the only way to help in these situations.

I'll see him in school, so that won't be bad.


Then do that; you're best bet!
PostPosted: Sun Feb 19, 2012 1:59 pm


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Ah....my ex and i had the same problem.
I can't really do anything often and almost never return his texts cuz of my parents. An attempt to decrease the amount of time i'm grounded. It was really hard and frustrating for him so we talked about it and decided to cut it off.
So communication and patience is the only way to help in these situations.

I'll see him in school, so that won't be bad.


Then do that; you're best bet!
I agree. It seems you know what you want. Talk it over, he might agree. Maybe try again once he's more available.

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