Sex

[Latent Memories]

What counts as sex? I finally got a boyfriend of my own, and its been about a month, and now he wants to blow me. I agreed because well, that seems really nice 8D and I couldn't seem to say no. But im still not sure if hes just looking for a sexual relationship. All my friends say I'm going to fast and me and my boyfriend dont ever say "I love you" but I will eventually. Sooo any advice, or do you just wanna troll?  

[sandrock_buck]

Yes, technically speaking, a blow job is a form of oral sex.Just think of it this way, would you consider it cheating if said boyfriend was going around and giving all of his friends blowjobs?

And don't rush to say those three little words, they should be saved for the one that you truly love. They are not words to be taken lightly or spent cheaply. Just because you haven't said it before having sex doesn't mean that you're going too fast, but you should make sure that you both know what you're in the relationship for. Sit him down and ask him, because if you're in the relationship for different reasons, it might be time to think really hard about said relationship.  

[Ivy_sins]

I did the same thing with my first. It went fine for us, and ended up together for a long time. This may not be true for you two, and your friends are just being protective of you. (: I don't see it being too big of an issue if he is blowing you, anyway. Just don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable!  

[BSPBleach]

honestly, i dont think there is such as a thing as too fast. as long as you both are on the same page. if you're worried about it, talk to him about to see if you are on the same page.

and yes. blowing is sex. oral, a**l, vaginal, it's all sex.  

[Kaze Espada]

Dude, your going to slow. You gotta put the petal to the metal.