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PostPosted: Sun May 20, 2012 3:32 pm
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Invite him over for a sleep over and then rape him.

Should I drug him first?  
PostPosted: Sun May 20, 2012 6:40 pm
Be like "You. Me. My bed. NOW."

BTW, love your sig.  

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PostPosted: Sun May 20, 2012 6:51 pm
Ahahaha. That's perfect.

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PostPosted: Fri May 25, 2012 7:18 am
Just be like " hey, i'm pretty sure your straight but just to clarify are you gay straight or bi? Just curious biggrin "

If he says straight no harm done and if he says otherwise then you have a shot smile

The key to asking is being casual about. You should be around other people when you ask but you shouldn't create an awkward moment by pull him aside or anything.

you should wait for a naturally occurring moment when both of you just happen to be alone and you've both been talking and joking around for a bit. If something vaguely sexual comes up in conversation then that would be a good opportunity to lead into asking.  

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 01, 2012 10:41 pm
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Just be like " hey, i'm pretty sure your straight but just to clarify are you gay straight or bi? Just curious biggrin "

If he says straight no harm done and if he says otherwise then you have a shot smile


Pretty much this. Just find out his orientation in a casual, non-aggressive manner, and take it from there. If he says outright that he's straight, then you can just drop it and move on, and you don't have to risk the discomfort of making an advance on somebody who can't return your feelings.  
PostPosted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 3:54 am
Splendid Venus
Just be like " hey, i'm pretty sure your straight but just to clarify are you gay straight or bi? Just curious biggrin "

If he says straight no harm done and if he says otherwise then you have a shot smile

The key to asking is being casual about. You should be around other people when you ask but you shouldn't create an awkward moment by pull him aside or anything.

you should wait for a naturally occurring moment when both of you just happen to be alone and you've both been talking and joking around for a bit. If something vaguely sexual comes up in conversation then that would be a good opportunity to lead into asking.


aaah, this advice is awesome! i wholeheartedly agree with venus~ remember to let us know how it turns out! if it works out, that's awesome! we shall celebrate with our fine feathered friend. if it doesn't, well then we can be there to help you as best as we can to cheer you up (that is if you're unhappy), for you're still our fine feathered friend! ^.^
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PostPosted: Wed Aug 01, 2012 7:41 pm
Soooo this is probably not a good idea but I'll pitch it to ya'll anyhow.

My friend and I are planning on getting some people together and going to a gay club during our first week at college before classes start.

Should I casually invite him to join us?
 
PostPosted: Wed Aug 01, 2012 10:44 pm
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Soooo this is probably not a good idea but I'll pitch it to ya'll anyhow.

My friend and I are planning on getting some people together and going to a gay club during our first week at college before classes start.

Should I casually invite him to join us?

Gay club, striaght guy, not a good mix if he's really straight >.<
 

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 02, 2012 7:07 am
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Soooo this is probably not a good idea but I'll pitch it to ya'll anyhow.

My friend and I are planning on getting some people together and going to a gay club during our first week at college before classes start.

Should I casually invite him to join us?

I don't know what has gone on in the time since the original post- but I think maybe the best route would be to establish a friendship with him outside of class- that way you have a stronger friendship and he has more of a chance to develop an attraction to you.  
PostPosted: Thu Aug 02, 2012 10:04 am
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Soooo this is probably not a good idea but I'll pitch it to ya'll anyhow.

My friend and I are planning on getting some people together and going to a gay club during our first week at college before classes start.

Should I casually invite him to join us?

I don't know what has gone on in the time since the original post- but I think maybe the best route would be to establish a friendship with him outside of class- that way you have a stronger friendship and he has more of a chance to develop an attraction to you.


Agreed
 

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 02, 2012 6:47 pm
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Nothing yet has happened.

I have about 18 days left before I meet him in person.

I definitely appreciate your advice and I sure as hell will do my best to build a friendship with him c:
 
PostPosted: Thu Aug 02, 2012 7:57 pm
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Nothing yet has happened.

I have about 18 days left before I meet him in person.

I definitely appreciate your advice and I sure as hell will do my best to build a friendship with him c:

Good luck!  

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 02, 2012 8:21 pm
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Thank you, thank you!
 
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