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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2012 6:54 am
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As the title implies, you don't need a boyfriend/girlfriend to be happy. I'm seeing all of these posts on other sites from younger people complaining that their lives would be soooo much better if they had a special someone. One of them even posted that they wanted to know what a**l sex feels like... Are you kidding me? I'm 23 years old; I'm not a guru in the game of love, but I do have plenty of experience. While I still have A LOT to learn (who doesn't?), I can tell you that complaining about it will just make matters worse.
Basically, calm your tits - you will not be single forever (unless you never take a chance in the future). Don't rush it. You will have a plethora of boyfriends/girlfriends in your lifetime, all leading up to your true love, who will come when conditions are right. Focus on yourself; do good in school, pick up a hobby, plan a beach outing with friends, get a job for all I care. Just don't complain how crappy your life is because, dudes and honeys, you ain't seen s**t yet.
Being homeless? THAT'S crappy. Being in debt? THAT'S crappy. Learning that your grandparent passed away? THAT'S crappy. Whining about your lack of romantic relationships? THAT's sad. Kick back, relax, enjoy your youth, and, above all...
Love yourself!
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2012 7:12 am
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2012 7:35 am
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2012 8:52 am
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The Bodacious Soul Reaper
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2012 9:52 am
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2012 10:53 am
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2012 10:55 am
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2012 12:50 pm
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2012 2:26 pm
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2012 4:11 pm
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2012 4:44 pm
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lgtenos, THANKS SO MUCH for making this thread. I've needed someone to tell me this for a while. It's just sometimes I get mad at myself for not putting myself out there. I'm 16 and I have never been in a legitimate relationship. I've had crushes before, but I've never taken it any further than there, because in some cases, they were straight girls, in others, they were womanizing guys, or, in by far one of the worst cases, they were my teachers(!) [Well, actually just one case that I can recall]. But I dunno. It's complicated. Sometimes I feel pathetic for never having had a date. Should I? I feel like I shouldn't. I'm conflicted. I'm just ranting here. All in all, I agree with you Igtenos. Before I have a boyfriend/girlfriend, I want to get a job and my learner's permit. Also, I kind of need to improve my social skills with my friends before I can start dating.
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Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2012 8:10 am
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Finally, I've had so many goddamn friends who state a load of trash such as "I really need a girlfriend/boyfriend, I feel so lonely." ...and these are from 13-15 years old - around my age pretty much (14). xd Bro, I'm single, and I'm LOVING IT. I really don't comprehend people like that...most come out from teenagers. Relationships are meant to be taken pretty seriously if you're gonna commit yourself in one, I don't think teenagers really understand that part. Actually, being in a relationship is a pain in the a**. First of all, most lovers won't even allow you to have free-time without them, and that's REALLY annoying. stare
You rarely get any space when you're in a relationship. And sirry, I don't see what's so shameful about being single. (lol I have alot of things on my mind right now, I forgot most of what I was going to say, s**t.) But overall, I think, you should enjoy your life as a kid. Have friends, laugh, have fun, get good grades too, blahblahblah. But teenagers..they just wanna take things to the next level, and always desperate for love. I'm telling you, if they keep searching with desperation like that, they'll NEVER find someone worth it. Personally, I don't believe in love, 'cause for me, it's a pure thing - NO ONE in this world is pure.
My friend is my age, and she always comes up to me about how all the people she dates breaks her heart...and that's because she's just jumping relationships. Most of these people don't proceed in they're life with caution, in most of their heads, it's just "Oh I have a girlfriend/boyfriend now! I'm not single anymore! Yayyy! Now I can get to tell my friends about the "love" of my life!" rofl ...People like this, one day, they'll end up back in the same spot again, being a "loner", because they've been through so many heart-breaking relationships, and no longer want to commit in one because "it's not worth it and I will never find true love." - my answer for them is..You'll never find it simply because you haven't chose your paths wisely, and like to jump from another relationship to another..HEY, IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY. stressed
Alright, I'm done talking.
P.S. This can relate to adults aswell, not just teenagers, I just stated them mostly simply because they relate to what you said.
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Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2012 8:17 am
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Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2012 12:27 pm
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