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Gigi Deveraux - Nanokax - Well, I'm from Portugal xD before getting bc i need to go to the doctor. and i think i can't go on my own.
I don't know how to find it o.O Ohhh... portuguesa. Mil perdoes! (Meu portugues e pesimo razz e meu teclado americano...) Nao posses pedir lubricante espermicida na farmacia? O melhor, seu namorado va buscar...
Não sei se percebes assim, em português. Se não perceberes diz que eu falo inglês, outra vez xD hmm, isso é muito caro? E o espermicida danifica o preservativo?
Acerca daquilo da v****a pequena, eu fui procurar na internet o que poderia ser. Encontrei isto http://www.vaginismus.com/faqs/vaginismus-questions/what-is-vaginismus?gclid=CKrw95GR_LACFYzbfAodDT7tfg . Sou muito pessimista.. Did you understand all this crap? xD
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2012 6:11 pm
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- Nanokax - Gigi Deveraux - Nanokax - Well, I'm from Portugal xD before getting bc i need to go to the doctor. and i think i can't go on my own.
I don't know how to find it o.O Ohhh... portuguesa. Mil perdoes! (Meu portugues e pesimo razz e meu teclado americano...) Nao posses pedir lubricante espermicida na farmacia? O melhor, seu namorado va buscar... Não sei se percebes assim, em português. Se não perceberes diz que eu falo inglês, outra vez xD hmm, isso é muito caro? E o espermicida danifica o preservativo? Acerca daquilo da v****a pequena, eu fui procurar na internet o que poderia ser. Encontrei isto http://www.vaginismus.com/faqs/vaginismus-questions/what-is-vaginismus?gclid=CKrw95GR_LACFYzbfAodDT7tfg . Sou muito pessimista.. Did you understand all this crap? xD
Yeah I understood just fine, but I'm VERY out of practice sweatdrop so we'll go on in English.
The spermicidal lubricant is made to work with condoms. It's non-oily so the condom won't be damaged, and it contains a chemical that kills sperm in case the condom breaks.
As for the vaginismus: If you concentrate on the idea that it's going to hurt, well, of course it's going to hurt! If you expect it to be nice it's less likely it will hurt. I think you and your BF should do a lot of making out and finger exploration before you actually have sex, just so you get used to the idea of having something inside you.
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Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2012 6:42 am
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Gigi Deveraux - Nanokax - Gigi Deveraux - Nanokax - Well, I'm from Portugal xD before getting bc i need to go to the doctor. and i think i can't go on my own.
I don't know how to find it o.O Ohhh... portuguesa. Mil perdoes! (Meu portugues e pesimo razz e meu teclado americano...) Nao posses pedir lubricante espermicida na farmacia? O melhor, seu namorado va buscar... Não sei se percebes assim, em português. Se não perceberes diz que eu falo inglês, outra vez xD hmm, isso é muito caro? E o espermicida danifica o preservativo?
Acerca daquilo da v****a pequena, eu fui procurar na internet o que poderia ser. Encontrei isto http://www.vaginismus.com/faqs/vaginismus-questions/what-is-vaginismus?gclid=CKrw95GR_LACFYzbfAodDT7tfg . Sou muito pessimista.. Did you understand all this crap? xDYeah I understood just fine, but I'm VERY out of practice sweatdrop so we'll go on in English. The spermicidal lubricant is made to work with condoms. It's non-oily so the condom won't be damaged, and it contains a chemical that kills sperm in case the condom breaks. As for the vaginismus: If you concentrate on the idea that it's going to hurt, well, of course it's going to hurt! If you expect it to be nice it's less likely it will hurt. I think you and your BF should do a lot of making out and finger exploration before you actually have sex, just so you get used to the idea of having something inside you.
Is it too expensive? /:
Like foreplay? ok, i'll try that. and i'll try to not overthink about the idea of pain as well.
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Posted: Wed Jul 04, 2012 12:45 pm
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Oh gosh, so in my most humble and honest opinion - I think you are just a bit too young for sex. I feel like the media (both written and TV stuffs) over-glorify it a bit, and sex is not the only option or method to show intimacy to your partner.
But first, to answer your question in a nutshell (since I don't want to repeat what the fabulous Gigi Devraux did an awesome job explaining): In my experience, it hurt and I bled a little (from the hymen tear) the first time. The next day I was sore, then I was fine after that, yadda yadda, lol
I know no one can can stop you from doing what you want, and if you are going to go through with it I absolutely recommend condoms (and practice putting it on him or a banana to make sure you put it on right and don't tear it, eek!). Like the other lovely ladies said, a baby will change your life regardless of what you have already planned for yourself.
Now, I did read through the thread and didn't see this mentioned (unless I'm so blind, lol, then I apologize) - but besides finger exploration, have you thought about oral for both parties as an alternative?
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Posted: Wed Jul 04, 2012 3:05 pm
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Oh gosh, so in my most humble and honest opinion - I think you are just a bit too young for sex. I feel like the media (both written and TV stuffs) over-glorify it a bit, and sex is not the only option or method to show intimacy to your partner.
But first, to answer your question in a nutshell (since I don't want to repeat what the fabulous Gigi Devraux did an awesome job explaining): In my experience, it hurt and I bled a little (from the hymen tear) the first time. The next day I was sore, then I was fine after that, yadda yadda, lol
I know no one can can stop you from doing what you want, and if you are going to go through with it I absolutely recommend condoms (and practice putting it on him or a banana to make sure you put it on right and don't tear it, eek!). Like the other lovely ladies said, a baby will change your life regardless of what you have already planned for yourself.
Now, I did read through the thread and didn't see this mentioned (unless I'm so blind, lol, then I apologize) - but besides finger exploration, have you thought about oral for both parties as an alternative?
I know, i know. I'm not ready to have a baby in my life right now. And i don't want it either! Well, we tried the finger exploration thing. And it really hurt, so I went looking what could that be and i found that thing about Vaginismus. So, i thought that this could be like a wake up call for me saying i'm not ready for sex now. About the oral we've done that already. But not for both parts. He says he doesn't like blowjobs. And I don't want to give him one, either. So yeah sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2012 12:34 pm
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Posted: Tue Jul 10, 2012 6:17 pm
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Posted: Sat Jul 14, 2012 7:22 am
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2012 4:03 pm
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Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2012 10:26 am
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- Nanokax - So hm, .. I have a boyfriend. We've met since 6th grade, but he never really talked a lot. Until April. In April, we started talking again. And we ended up dating. We turned a month on Wednesday. The thing is, i'm thinking about loosing my virginity to him. I'm super scared. Does it hurts? Is it good at the first time? I have a million questions on my head right now..
Do you girls think we are going too fast? I know I'm going to lose it before September, the end of my summer vacations. Oh well.. I love him so much, and I think I'm ready to do it. But I'm afraid of the consequences. Pregnancy, diseases, my family finding it out..
Nanokax I'm sure your not the only girl has thought of giving it up at first, but honestly if you are worried about giving it away to him then I think that just proves that maybe your not ready to give up. For now, why not just enjoy being in a relationship with him. You are young and so is he, you two have alot of time to think about it later. Atleast if your relationship comes to an end, you two won't regret it in the future.
Honestly I think that waiting until marraige is better that way because it would make it be much more worth it. That's advice.
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Posted: Sat Aug 18, 2012 6:38 am
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Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2012 8:26 pm
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Posted: Wed Aug 22, 2012 9:39 pm
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