some one to talk to

[darbear94]

hello i have been having some problems in my relationships and my thinking(according to my friend) and i would really just like to talk to ONE person that is a third party that really doesnt know either one of us just to talk to and hopefully get some advice  

[Alashuko The Fighter]

darbear94

hello i have been having some problems in my relationships and my thinking(according to my friend) and i would really just like to talk to ONE person that is a third party that really doesnt know either one of us just to talk to and hopefully get some advice

If you tell me the situation, then I can help. :3 So talk to me. What happened?  

[darbear94]

well me and my gf have been having some problems we have trust issues between each other both our falts but more of mine something hasnt been right with us for awhile and my friend thinks i just need to try to be happy and i said maybe im not supposed to be happy and that maybe i should just start staying out of relationships and just have sex with people and dont make a relationship any more that just that  

[Alashuko The Fighter]

darbear94

well me and my gf have been having some problems we have trust issues between each other both our falts but more of mine something hasnt been right with us for awhile and my friend thinks i just need to try to be happy and i said maybe im not supposed to be happy and that maybe i should just start staying out of relationships and just have sex with people and dont make a relationship any more that just that

Well what you need to do is listen to your friend. He is right. Whenever you are happy, it shows your confidence and shows you can also be trusted. Maybe having sex with somebody can be good, but relationship is better because you can start something. It grows into love, it grows into a couple, then after the honeymoon, it grows into a family. Relationships are the most special kind of things you could ask for. If you feel like that it's falling apart cuz of trust issues, then they have some excercises or camps for that. At least from what I heard. Even if it ain't organized, then make your own excercises and don't just make it one day, cuz relationships don't last that long. I hope you and your girl stay together.