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 Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2012 8:27 am
Since I'm up late doing my project, I thought I'd rant a bit. Thank goodness for this guild.
Anyway, I've been thinking about this one boy. He's about my age. We're really good friends, but I've been thinking about him a lot. I think I might have a crush on him, but I don't know. I've really been thinking about him a lot. ;-;
He has a crush on someone already. I didn't know how to feel when he told me.
What should I do? >_<;
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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2012 8:59 am
See, the thing with a 'crush' is, nothing is set in stone. You can have a crush on more than one person at a time and you can easily move on from one person to another.
If you like him, take your chance. Nothing is worse than never knowing how things could have been or finding out later that you could have been together, not even rejection.
I would have different advice if he was in a relationship with someone, but as it's only a crush he isn't. So, talk to him and see how it goes. The worst thing he can do is say no.
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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2012 9:12 am
ll-Frantic-ll See, the thing with a 'crush' is, nothing is set in stone. You can have a crush on more than one person at a time and you can easily move on from one person to another. If you like him, take your chance. Nothing is worse than never knowing how things could have been or finding out later that you could have been together, not even rejection. I would have different advice if he was in a relationship with someone, but as it's only a crush he isn't. So, talk to him and see how it goes. The worst thing he can do is say no. What if he says no and we're not going to be friends anymore? And where would I tell him, even?
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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2012 9:17 am
kawaii189 What if he says no and we're not going to be friends anymore? And where would I tell him, even? I've always had the theory that if someone stops being your friend over something like that then they were never a real friend to begin with. I've told a couple friends how I felt about them, and had a few tell me how they felt. In the end, we were still friends. That really doesn't change anything if you just go on with your life after said rejection. As for where to tell him, I have no idea. You would have to decide where you think the best opportunity would take place, I can't do that for you. ;D Just know that you can't live in fear and be happy. You will pass up some of the best things and opportunities in life if you are always afraid to try because of the potential outcome. (=
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Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2012 8:44 am
I agree, if he doesn't want to be your friend afterwards then he's a waste of your time.
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Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2012 9:34 pm
Ground Cinnamon I agree, if he doesn't want to be your friend afterwards then he's a waste of your time. I actually confessed to him yesterday. He's still thinking about it...
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Posted: Wed Oct 24, 2012 12:08 am
kawaii189 I actually confessed to him yesterday. He's still thinking about it... Good luck! I hope things go well for you. ^_^; I confessed to my friend almost a year ago.. we took things kinda slow, but we've been together for a little over six months now. xP
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Posted: Wed Oct 24, 2012 3:13 am
ll-Frantic-ll kawaii189 I actually confessed to him yesterday. He's still thinking about it... Good luck! I hope things go well for you. ^_^; I confessed to my friend almost a year ago.. we took things kinda slow, but we've been together for a little over six months now. xP I don't mind taking it slow with him, honestly - I just want him to be happy, y'know? And wow, six months! I assume that means you're still together?
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Posted: Wed Oct 24, 2012 4:39 am
kawaii189 I don't mind taking it slow with him, honestly - I just want him to be happy, y'know? And wow, six months! I assume that means you're still together? I know exactly what you mean. It's good that you care about how he feels in this situation as well, so kudos to you. XD Yes, we are! o 3o We're kinda doing the whole long distance thing at the moment.. but I spent my summer with him and I'm supposed to be going back again in a few months.. or moving there.. whichever comes first. ^_^;
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Posted: Wed Oct 24, 2012 10:24 pm
ll-Frantic-ll kawaii189 I don't mind taking it slow with him, honestly - I just want him to be happy, y'know? And wow, six months! I assume that means you're still together? I know exactly what you mean. It's good that you care about how he feels in this situation as well, so kudos to you. XD Yes, we are! o 3o We're kinda doing the whole long distance thing at the moment.. but I spent my summer with him and I'm supposed to be going back again in a few months.. or moving there.. whichever comes first. ^_^; Oh, thank you. I hope it goes well for you!
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Posted: Wed Oct 24, 2012 11:00 pm
 
Would you lookit that, hello there~! 4laugh How you doing?
I don't see any problem with you having a crush on him even though he already likes someone. It would be harder for you to control your emotions, so it's best to just ride it out. If it really is just a crush, it will soon die down or go down to a more moderate level. I know how it felt like when you learn that horrible truth. I wanted to just sit down in a lonely corner and stare into space when I learned he's already courting someone. But as I've said, just ride it out for now.
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