darlindol17
Rubai Sora
What I meant is that it's unforgiving for those who are new and mess up. Here, if something is wrong, people will be nice enough to point it out. There you're just shunned. I can't fit in any label brands, so I'm forced to make mine. Not to mention I have to fight my mom on the style of the outfit when we make them, so I could never wear mine in Japan and say it's Lolita. She doesn't mind the cute factor (weird since I'm 23), but because I'm overweight she doesn't want me to look even fatter (which I could care less).
:3 There are labels who cater to us bigger girls though and you also could fit into the regular brands. You just need to pay attention to the style of the dress and measurements and you'll be surprised. If you want brands that have tons of shirring though I suggest Mam Maxicimam. A label that has clothing labeled Lovely Size which caters to plus size. Even their dresses that are not meant to be plus sized are super forgiving with tons of shirring. Another label that does have plenty of dresses with shirring is Baby The Stars Shine Bright. They have another label (the sister label which caters to more gothic styled lolita) which is Alice and The Pirates. That label is less forgiving, but I own 2 pieces from that line. Look for babydoll dresses which have shirring for the breast and require no waist measurement since it is empire waist. Another piece is a skirt from them which the waist goes up to 40 inches! You just need to do some research and measure yourself and I'm sure you'll be fine! If you have any questions you can inbox me anytime :3