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PostPosted: Thu Nov 22, 2012 2:10 pm
No, not Personal Date Arrangers. I'm talking about Personal Displays of Affection. Or, sucking face in public. What do you guys think? Personally, I love it and wholesomely support it. Seeing two people kissing on the bus, subway, on the street...I just think it's cute. For me it's a real pick-me-up when I'm feeling down. It gives me happy feelings (no, I'm not being dirty) that I can express to my partners. It helps me to appreciate how much I love my partners and how grateful I am to be able to have people close to me that I can express it in the same way.

I know...some people think it's disgusting. Even just seeking two people who are obviously intimate with each other to express their attraction for each other. I just don't get that.  
PostPosted: Thu Nov 22, 2012 3:27 pm
Depends where it's being performed. If you're at the grocery and two love doves are macking it in the middle of isle or line chances are I won't be very appreciative or kind.

I think if people are doing it out of the way of other people and are mindful not to get carried away I'm too bothered.

I'm not a particularly affectionate person myself but that doesn't mean others shouldn't be allowed to show their love for one another.
 

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 22, 2012 3:32 pm
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Depends where it's being performed. If you're at the grocery and two love doves are macking it in the middle of isle or line chances are I won't be very appreciative or kind.

I think if people are doing it out of the way of other people and are mindful not to get carried away I'm too bothered.

I'm not a particularly affectionate person myself but that doesn't mean others shouldn't be allowed to show their love for one another.

Yeah...I agree...if they're not akin to a road block...I don't see that a lot though. It just shakes my head when, say, they're on a bus and getting really cuddly...I mean...not like raping each other's mouths...then I just giggle and shake my head at other's discomfort.  
PostPosted: Thu Nov 22, 2012 3:45 pm
I find the over-the-top displays to be kind of annoying, but other than that, I don't really care what other people do. I don't like or dislike seeing it.

Exception: Elderly couples. I don't know why, but seeing two people who are still lovey-dovey in their senior years just strikes me as sweet.

For myself, I absolutely do not enjoy being very affectionate in public. I'm a pretty reserved person, and it makes me uncomfortable.  

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 22, 2012 4:18 pm
I'm a rather introverted person myself, but my girlfriend likes holding my hand in public.

The idea of PDA is a hit and miss for me. Majority of the time, it disgusts me though.  
PostPosted: Thu Nov 22, 2012 4:36 pm
Depends on what kind of affection it is. Holding hands, cuddling, and little kisses? I think that's fine. It's even cute, most of the time.

What I don't like is when people decide to have a full-blown make-out session right next to me. I knew a couple who did that in high school, and I remembered being constantly annoyed with them. I also saw another couple in the bus station once who were pretty much having sex with their clothes on, and I didn't much like that.
 

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 22, 2012 6:11 pm
kissing? yeah sure, whatever.
hugging? i've bear-hugged my friends in public, go on ahead.
holding hands? yeah, sure! go nuts.
and anything else, like spinning people around? it's entertaining to watch, so please go right on ahead.

but please, no going full-on makeout sessions. i don't need to see that, thanks.
also one guy started running his hand up his girlfriend's shirt in public (the back, thank god). i just... no. save it for the bedroom or wherever, buddy.

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 22, 2012 6:47 pm
it's ok to a certain point for me i mean when they are just kissing and not really like makeing any noise while doing so then it's ok but when they start to like try to literitly suck each others faces off or are just punching eachothers face with their lips then thats when i hate it i mean seriously what the ******** are you doing!?! it's kissing not a battle to the death with your lips!! and also in movies they start off doing that really really really slow kiss that is like............*about to kiss*.......<..........>...............*still about to kiss*..<......>........*finally aboutto kiss* <...> *kiss* <> AND THEN!! *EAT EACH OTHERS FACE!!!* <#(*%&(#$>  

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 23, 2012 6:39 am
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it's ok to a certain point for me i mean when they are just kissing and not really like makeing any noise while doing so then it's ok but when they start to like try to literitly suck each others faces off or are just punching eachothers face with their lips then thats when i hate it i mean seriously what the ******** are you doing!?! it's kissing not a battle to the death with your lips!! and also in movies they start off doing that really really really slow kiss that is like............*about to kiss*.......<..........>...............*still about to kiss*..<......>........*finally aboutto kiss* <...> *kiss* <> AND THEN!! *EAT EACH OTHERS FACE!!!* <#(*%&(#$>

Yeah...mouth raping is SUCH a turn off for me.

Love this! Hehehe *snort* Never seen it yet. But I'd LOVE to do commentary to it while it's happening!
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they start off doing that really really really slow kiss that is like............*about to kiss*.......<..........>...............*still about to kiss*..<......>........*finally aboutto kiss* <...> *kiss* <> AND THEN!! *EAT EACH OTHERS FACE!!!*
 
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