How should I go about this?

[Symptom_of_Society]

I am "friends" with an apparent homophobic girl. (she has said truly mean things to many LGBT friends of mine). I am pretty open about my orientation. If someone asks I'm truthful and I am not one to blatantly out of the blue announce that im Bi. Recently she made a homophobic comment in front of my. Regrettably, at the time I didnt take notice of it.

Basically, I want the opportunity to say a few things to her about this, and make her understand that im Bi.

However, I need the opportunity to come up to tell her who I truly am. And her to say something mean back. How should I casually let her know?

I have considered wearing a pride bracelet or something of the nature, however that would take some time to either buy/make and I want to end this conflict now.  

[xXHazukashiiXx]

Simple lah, tell her who you are. If she denies you, she is not a true friend.  

[Shanna66]

if i was in your shoes i would just come out and ask her to stop ssaying homophobic things if she wants to stay your friend. im not one to randomly come out either but sometimes it needs to be done to shut someone up  

[Symptom_of_Society]

Yes, but I have to wait for her to say something homophobic to MY face, not one of my buddies sad

Shanna66

if i was in your shoes i would just come out and ask her to stop ssaying homophobic things if she wants to stay your friend. im not one to randomly come out either but sometimes it needs to be done to shut someone up

 

[Symptom_of_Society]

Oh, i cant say I consider her a true friend. Everytime I look at her I just see a big homophobic b**ch. Im just waiting for the opportunity to "educate" her on her hurtful words

xXHazukashiiXx

Simple lah, tell her who you are. If she denies you, she is not a true friend.

 

[iiParadoxical]

Xx_LunaJade_xX

Yes, but I have to wait for her to say something homophobic to MY face, not one of my buddies sad

"Hey, I heard you said to one of my friends. I was wondering if you could stop..." is a good way to bring it up. Might want to tweak a word or two but still.
Great way for not having to randomly come out, only really having to do so if she asks why you care so much. Even then you could say that she just hurt your friend's feelings and that's what a true friend would do.

or

"Oh, that girl be smoooookinnn'," could be another comment you could say where it possibly could lead to a harsh comment to your face and you coming out to her. But I'd prefer the first. I'd rather not get harsh talk thrown in my face : /  

[Symptom_of_Society]

haha thx, yea ill try a rendition of the latter! xD. or something of the sort. I am truly just waiting for her to say something to my face so I can b***h and let her know that its not ok. quote="iiParadoxical"]

Xx_LunaJade_xX

Yes, but I have to wait for her to say something homophobic to MY face, not one of my buddies sad

"Hey, I heard you said to one of my friends. I was wondering if you could stop..." is a good way to bring it up. Might want to tweak a word or two but still.
Great way for not having to randomly come out, only really having to do so if she asks why you care so much. Even then you could say that she just hurt your friend's feelings and that's what a true friend would do.

or

"Oh, that girl be smoooookinnn'," could be another comment you could say where it possibly could lead to a harsh comment to your face and you coming out to her. But I'd prefer the latter. I'd rather not get harsh talk thrown in my face : /