Nearly 3 months ago, I met this guy. He seemed pretty desperate to date me, but I at least made him wait about a month. Honestly, it's not like me to date someone that I've only known for such a short time. Anyways, we date for a week and he CONSTANTLY talks about his ex that supposedly lives 10 miles away from him, but he talks like she lives right around the block. I mean..she was bringing him lunch every afternoon and everything. He eve gets drunk as all heck with her one night, brings her home, lays her in his bed where she passes out drunk, gets online to tell me just that and that he's going to lay down with her then signs off. He then gets online about an hour and a half later saying that he woke her up and got his friend to take her home and that he felt bad and everything...but he tells me all of this while he's drunk. A couple of days later, he proceeds to break-up with me because he believes that I can do better.
About..maybe a week later, he comes crawling back saying that I'm the only one that's ever on his mind. I told him that he has ONE chance. So we date for what is about another week and a half. One night, he starts crying while looking through his ex's facebook pictures telling me that she was the one. A day after that, he proceeds to SERIOUSLY ask me to marry him(Where I of course declined). So the day before Christmas Eve, he breaks up with me AGAIN in thoughts that he can do better and we have a terrible fight. I told him to go back to his slut,(his ex gf that he's always around that he called a slut himself, then gets on MY case because I call her one) he said that he wished that I would drop dead. No matter HOW angry that I am with someone, I will NEVER tell them something like that. So I cry all night.
Now he claims that he spent Christmas Eve and Christmas crying over me while he flirts with my best friend who has no interest in him whatsoever. He tells her everything that he won't tell me, but she tells me as soon as he even talks to her. I don't believe a single thing that he has to say to me, but I still care for him like an idiot.
This makes me sense really, but what should I do? He's said hurtful things that I will NEVER forget and he expects me to just up and be happy towards him like I can. He hates how I'm being cold to him, but I believe that I have every right to.
About..maybe a week later, he comes crawling back saying that I'm the only one that's ever on his mind. I told him that he has ONE chance. So we date for what is about another week and a half. One night, he starts crying while looking through his ex's facebook pictures telling me that she was the one. A day after that, he proceeds to SERIOUSLY ask me to marry him(Where I of course declined). So the day before Christmas Eve, he breaks up with me AGAIN in thoughts that he can do better and we have a terrible fight. I told him to go back to his slut,(his ex gf that he's always around that he called a slut himself, then gets on MY case because I call her one) he said that he wished that I would drop dead. No matter HOW angry that I am with someone, I will NEVER tell them something like that. So I cry all night.
Now he claims that he spent Christmas Eve and Christmas crying over me while he flirts with my best friend who has no interest in him whatsoever. He tells her everything that he won't tell me, but she tells me as soon as he even talks to her. I don't believe a single thing that he has to say to me, but I still care for him like an idiot.
This makes me sense really, but what should I do? He's said hurtful things that I will NEVER forget and he expects me to just up and be happy towards him like I can. He hates how I'm being cold to him, but I believe that I have every right to.
What do you think that I should do?