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Posted: Tue Apr 02, 2013 10:35 am
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Posted: Tue Apr 02, 2013 10:42 am
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Posted: Tue Apr 02, 2013 10:45 am
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Posted: Tue Apr 02, 2013 10:48 am
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Posted: Tue Apr 02, 2013 10:50 am
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Posted: Tue Apr 02, 2013 10:54 am
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o0Roxy0o Kitalpha Hart having never being in a relationship, i can say with great authority that it's normal. as time goes on, your mind remembers the good stuff, but not the meh stuff and the bad stuff like that with anything, really i never understand why people that are always single always have the ones in relationships turning to them for advice. maybe cuz they're more clear-headed on such things? dunno I think you're right. I guess I have forgotten all the negatives of that relationship. Or do you think it might be because I'm not being treated as well with the new guy I'm with?
combination, maybe. how has he been treating you? like a normal person? nicely unless friends are around? has he been trying to get to know you, so that he might surprise you later?
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Posted: Tue Apr 02, 2013 10:57 am
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Kitalpha Hart o0Roxy0o Kitalpha Hart having never being in a relationship, i can say with great authority that it's normal. as time goes on, your mind remembers the good stuff, but not the meh stuff and the bad stuff like that with anything, really i never understand why people that are always single always have the ones in relationships turning to them for advice. maybe cuz they're more clear-headed on such things? dunno I think you're right. I guess I have forgotten all the negatives of that relationship. Or do you think it might be because I'm not being treated as well with the new guy I'm with?
combination, maybe. how has he been treating you? like a normal person? nicely unless friends are around? has he been trying to get to know you, so that he might surprise you later?
The whole reason I left my ex is because I felt too tied down with him. His whole life revolved around me and he only wanted to be around me.
So I guess being with this new guy, even though he treats me rather well, it's just weird not being his center of attention. Slowly but surely I'm seeing his faults. Like for example, he never thinks of the consequences before he does something.
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Posted: Tue Apr 02, 2013 11:03 am
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o0Roxy0o Kitalpha Hart o0Roxy0o Kitalpha Hart having never being in a relationship, i can say with great authority that it's normal. as time goes on, your mind remembers the good stuff, but not the meh stuff and the bad stuff like that with anything, really i never understand why people that are always single always have the ones in relationships turning to them for advice. maybe cuz they're more clear-headed on such things? dunno I think you're right. I guess I have forgotten all the negatives of that relationship. Or do you think it might be because I'm not being treated as well with the new guy I'm with?
combination, maybe. how has he been treating you? like a normal person? nicely unless friends are around? has he been trying to get to know you, so that he might surprise you later? The whole reason I left my ex is because I felt too tied down with him. His whole life revolved around me and he only wanted to be around me.
So I guess being with this new guy, even though he treats me rather well, it's just weird not being his center of attention. Slowly but surely I'm seeing his faults. Like for example, he never thinks of the consequences before he does something.
so his not being 100% you is something you will get used to. the fact that he's an act-first-think-later kind of person might end well, might not. i can only say wait and see for that and just remember that nobody's perfect~
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Posted: Tue Apr 02, 2013 11:12 am
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Kitalpha Hart o0Roxy0o Kitalpha Hart o0Roxy0o Kitalpha Hart having never being in a relationship, i can say with great authority that it's normal. as time goes on, your mind remembers the good stuff, but not the meh stuff and the bad stuff like that with anything, really i never understand why people that are always single always have the ones in relationships turning to them for advice. maybe cuz they're more clear-headed on such things? dunno I think you're right. I guess I have forgotten all the negatives of that relationship. Or do you think it might be because I'm not being treated as well with the new guy I'm with?
combination, maybe. how has he been treating you? like a normal person? nicely unless friends are around? has he been trying to get to know you, so that he might surprise you later? The whole reason I left my ex is because I felt too tied down with him. His whole life revolved around me and he only wanted to be around me.
So I guess being with this new guy, even though he treats me rather well, it's just weird not being his center of attention. Slowly but surely I'm seeing his faults. Like for example, he never thinks of the consequences before he does something.
so his not being 100% you is something you will get used to. the fact that he's an act-first-think-later kind of person might end well, might not. i can only say wait and see for that and just remember that nobody's perfect~
I feel so much better already. emotion_hug Thank you. emotion_bigheart
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Posted: Tue Apr 02, 2013 11:21 am
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o0Roxy0o Kitalpha Hart o0Roxy0o Kitalpha Hart o0Roxy0o Kitalpha Hart having never being in a relationship, i can say with great authority that it's normal. as time goes on, your mind remembers the good stuff, but not the meh stuff and the bad stuff like that with anything, really i never understand why people that are always single always have the ones in relationships turning to them for advice. maybe cuz they're more clear-headed on such things? dunno I think you're right. I guess I have forgotten all the negatives of that relationship. Or do you think it might be because I'm not being treated as well with the new guy I'm with?
combination, maybe. how has he been treating you? like a normal person? nicely unless friends are around? has he been trying to get to know you, so that he might surprise you later? The whole reason I left my ex is because I felt too tied down with him. His whole life revolved around me and he only wanted to be around me.
So I guess being with this new guy, even though he treats me rather well, it's just weird not being his center of attention. Slowly but surely I'm seeing his faults. Like for example, he never thinks of the consequences before he does something.
so his not being 100% you is something you will get used to. the fact that he's an act-first-think-later kind of person might end well, might not. i can only say wait and see for that and just remember that nobody's perfect~ I feel so much better already. emotion_hug Thank you. emotion_bigheart
welcome~
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Posted: Tue Apr 02, 2013 9:31 pm
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o0Roxy0o Ittarius It's natural to want to be loved. It sounds to me that you just feel alone. So, I would suggest that you look for another relationship, if you don't want to date your ex anymore. I have moved on already, but I'm starting to wonder if this new guy is only a rebound? I feel bad being with someone and thinking of someone else. Maybe it's because my ex was the only guy I ever had sex with, so there will always be that emotional bond. Oh and I was so comfortable with my ex and now I actually got to put in an effort with this new guy. emotion_0A0
Trying can be very difficult when you're used to not having to. I'm like that, too- but every relationship starts out like that. You can't just be totally at ease, perfect relationship right off; it takes work. Now, whether that work will pay off, I can't say, but you have to at least give it a go.
You shouldn't feel bad about thinking about your ex, though. He was a significant person for you, and his role in your life made an impact on you that can never really be reversed. But when you have, like you said, an emotional bond with someone, it can be really hard to break them from your system, even if you have moved on; it's really hard to forget someone so you shouldn't worry about it. Everyone thinks of someone else from time to time.
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Posted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 5:59 am
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