My bf..lately we seem to be drifting further and further apart.. We barely talk, spend time together, or anything And if we do we just...talk..no..passion? No hugs, snuggles or anything..barely kisses..just..bleh..almost like he dosent want to spend time with me..*sighs*..
Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2014 6:32 pm
You guys should try talking about it. It could be that he doesn't want to be with you anymore or maybe something dramatic happened and he's feeling out of it and depressed. Hopefully it's the latter. Either way, a good chat can probably solve this. [:
You guys should try talking about it. It could be that he doesn't want to be with you anymore or maybe something dramatic happened and he's feeling out of it and depressed. Hopefully it's the latter. Either way, a good chat can probably solve this. [:
I cant even talk to him...takes hours for replies..iusually just tell myself gnight..
Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2014 6:42 pm
ll Essie ll
are you texting or actually talking ? this makes such a difference . the techie age we're in nowadays makes people forget how important the sound of another human voice really is to us . texting ( even with emotes ) feels cold by comparison and lacks that genuine concern that comes from a living breathing person .
otherwise , it may be time to make yourself less available . if he really wants to keep being with you he will come after you . other side of that of course is that maybe it is time to move on to make yourself available to a man that will climb mountains and build bridges to spend time with you c:
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Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2014 6:46 pm
ll Essie ll
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You guys should try talking about it. It could be that he doesn't want to be with you anymore or maybe something dramatic happened and he's feeling out of it and depressed. Hopefully it's the latter. Either way, a good chat can probably solve this. [:
I cant even talk to him...takes hours for replies..iusually just tell myself gnight..
Aw man :c That must suck. When you can get in contact with him, maybe you can try scheduling a meet up?
Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2014 6:46 pm
Trance Harper
ll Essie ll
are you texting or actually talking ? this makes such a difference . the techie age we're in nowadays makes people forget how important the sound of another human voice really is to us . texting ( even with emotes ) feels cold by comparison and lacks that genuine concern that comes from a living breathing person .
otherwise , it may be time to make yourself less available . if he really wants to keep being with you he will come after you . other side of that of course is that maybe it is time to move on to make yourself available to a man that will climb mountains and build bridges to spend time with you c:
You guys should try talking about it. It could be that he doesn't want to be with you anymore or maybe something dramatic happened and he's feeling out of it and depressed. Hopefully it's the latter. Either way, a good chat can probably solve this. [:
I cant even talk to him...takes hours for replies..iusually just tell myself gnight..
Aw man :c That must suck. When you can get in contact with him, maybe you can try scheduling a meet up?
Tried..didnt work..waited for an hour
Posted: Wed May 21, 2014 3:40 pm
I hope things are getting better, and it was just a rough patch. We all go through them. Either way I hope things are getting better.
Moving this over to the Boys Subforum, So more girls can help/Get help from this thread. heart
Why dont you two like meet a place where you two can talk ask him if he wants to come talk to you sorry im not good with advice tho it was the same thing with my ex. And im nit saying you need to break up with him.
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