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Posted: Sat Nov 01, 2014 8:08 am
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Do you have guys friends ?
Guy friends that you go out for activities without them thinking it's a date. Guys that likes you only as a friend and you too.
Do you think a woman and a man can only be friends?
----- I don't have. I talk with my cousins, they are family... I hang out with my friends brothers with my friends, but we are not friends. Because we don't talk about personal stuff, we don't talk and meet other than when my friends are doing something. -------
The reason why I don't have guy friends, I don't know how to start being friends with them. With girls, it's easy, we go shopping together, we talk about makeup, clothes, tv shows... With guys, I am afraid that they think it's a date. Unless, I must find other friends that are there when we hang out together.
My friend told me that at my age (24), it's hard to make new guys friends, guys want to date and sleep with you. Unless, they are gays... My other friend says it's possible because she has guys friends that are not attracted to her.
Also when I was around 6-8 my mom told me to not have a boyfriend, because a relationship will disturb my studies. I was a really good kid. I always listen to my parents. So, at that age I thought the best way to not have a boyfriend is to not talk to them. When I was young, from 4 to 17 year old guys were mean to me, they make fun of me. I found them mean, so I took distance from them. I met kind guys but I never took the initiative to be friends with them. Having girl friend is enough. My mom also told me (I don't know how old I was) how guys take advantage of girls, they just want to sleep with you. Not all guys are like that, but when I was young I thought I have to stay away from them.
My friends had bad relationships (verbal abuse, dating only for sex and ditch you when they find somebody else that they like more, ending the relationship because they are afraid of commitment) before they found the one (not everyone found it yet).
I have trust issues. I am afraid of living bad relationships. I don't know how to be friends with guys (other topic). However, I dream and wish almost everyday that I meet a kind guy. I want to be in a relationship.
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Posted: Sat Nov 01, 2014 8:31 am
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Posted: Sat Nov 01, 2014 3:15 pm
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Posted: Mon May 02, 2016 10:59 am
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Posted: Thu May 12, 2016 8:10 pm
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Posted: Fri May 13, 2016 3:46 pm
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Posted: Fri May 13, 2016 7:51 pm
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XxAriaxX Pastel-candy-lover93 1. Did you have any guy friends? of course I do. I actually have a best friend is actually a guy. Well sure My best friend is actually good sense of humor. And my other guy friends is at my adult program, we joke around a lot and teasing and I laughing my pants off with the tears. And we have a good time. 2. Do you think a woman and a man can only be friends? It depends on the person.Well of course if you have great sense of humor and you like to make things and you like doing outside stuff and swimming. And of course I think it's easier to have a guy as a friend than a girl. I find it is easier for me to be friends with a girl than a guy... With girls, I share common interest makeup, shopping... It is easier to talk with them so we have been friends for years.. we have played card games like golf. However I added their points together.
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Posted: Fri May 27, 2016 8:39 pm
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Posted: Tue May 31, 2016 2:12 pm
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Posted: Tue Jun 07, 2016 9:18 pm
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