i've started a topic about this in gaia already but i want to know what people think of realation ships here first. Have you ever been in one? is it worth it if i ask my crush to be my bf? or should i not talk about my feelings with him. I'm really cunfused and don't know what to do i don't want to be turned down again, yet at the same time what if he likes me back the same way i have feelings for him, would that be a waste of fear? I don't want him to leave me for someone like the last two people i had did, i want to stick this one out if i do get it and i'm afraid to loose him, is that a good fear or am i dwelling on the past to much? but i really need help and i don't want to be alone if i don't have to be, i never felt the soft tuches of a boy's lips before never.
Posted: Sun Feb 04, 2007 1:26 pm
First off, let me start by saying I personally under no circumstances will never not talk about my feelings.
I'm in a relationship going on 5 years now, sure it has its ups and downs, but thats what makes the two of you stronger individually and as one.
If you ask your crush to be your bf, the worst that could happen is he could say no. The best that could happen is he were to say yes! can you normally talk to him about anything? What kind of vibes do you get off of this guy? I mean do you get the impression that he likes you too?
Don't let past relationships interfere with your future ones. The only thing it will do is complicate things for the both of you. Don't be afraid to move on, though you do have the right to fear that you will lose him. Maybe this new guy can understand that too.