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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 1:57 pm
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Same girl as my topic before concerning my love life.
But back then it was more like just a crush and wondering if anything could potentially happen between me and this girl... But now it's like... totally different...
I was in a mild streak of depression and told myself that she would never like me and that we were totally wrong for one another... So I asked one of my friends out, just to try and move on. She said maybe, and I perceived it as a "no" so I went to girl #1 and told her that I had asked this friend out. Girl #1 dated girl #2 last year and was completely shocked when I told her. I told her that it was funny because I had no real feelings at all for girl #2, and she was kind of going hysterical over the whole thing. She actually shouted, "Maybe it was just an act of desperation?!"
Well, I ended up going to the park with girl #2 that weekend anyways and we mutually agreed that we shouldn't date. But the vein of conversation eventually turned to girl #1. Basically it went a little something like this: #2: Well, I told [girl #1] that you asked me out Me: Yeah, and? #2: Well, she kind of did that 'oh...' where suddenly there's a giant awkward silence Me: oh? #2: She really likes you. After I told her and we got quiet, she told me
And I started freaking out because I thought there was no way in hell that she would EVER like me, and now a whole bunch of people are telling me that we would make an extremely good couple. And I'm scared of asking her out Because I don't want her to say no...
But we're really close, all the time. We hang out after school and pretty much hang all over each other until my mom comes and we have to keep a safe distance from one another. I sat down under the flag pole yesterday and she actually sprawled across my lap and we just kind of stayed there and I stroked her hair and everything until she had to go. Wah... So, should I ask her out? How do you ask someone out? gonk
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 2:44 pm
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 2:46 pm
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 9:54 pm
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Posted: Mon May 14, 2007 4:41 pm
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i agree with kit. if u don't try, it will never happen. as for asking her out, if u r too scared about asking her straight up 'will u be my gf', then just ask her if she wants to hang out, to the movies, bowling alley, park, SOMETHING...just the 2 of u. when the time is right, it'll come. otherwise, muster up the courage and spit it out! while u have the half feeling, ignore the scared haf and just say it, nit holding back, no regret. that's what i do when i'm not sure if i should say something. i do it on impulse, that way i have no way of backing down. maybe u should try that, see if it works. if not, try a different approach
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Posted: Fri Jun 08, 2007 2:31 am
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 6:54 pm
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Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 9:29 am
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2007 1:05 am
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Posted: Thu Jun 21, 2007 11:50 am
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