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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 9:23 am
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 9:59 am
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 11:14 am
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 3:15 pm
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 3:16 pm
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Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2007 11:43 am
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Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2007 6:27 pm
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Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2007 9:08 pm
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Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2007 11:32 pm
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Posted: Mon Aug 20, 2007 4:15 am
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Gopher dude lilraine The Jabborwock Does fear of the drak maake you foolish?I think i have nyctophobia(fear of the dark)and my father says im an a** for being afraid.. you're NOT an a** for being afraid. I think it's terrible that your father said this to you. there are few things to me that are worse than a parent ruining his/her childs self-esteem. everyone has fears to one degree to another. I dont think you're foolish. a LOT of people fear the dark. and you may grow out of it. if it is a true phobia, then eventually you might wanna see a psychologist about it. you are not foolish in my book, hon. If he isn't trying to ruin his child hood (unless he's got like a record or somthing whatever this is one case I'll make of it what it seems like) he's just telling him to hoist up his go-nads and be a manly man and go kick his fears a**. It's good to be afraid of things it gives us manly men a rush of adrenaline in order to kick said scary things a** it's a natural part of life...I was once afraid of the dark and then I figured "it's just dark..you know this is pretty good light to sleep in!" Humans are sort of naturaly afraid of the dark. Ever since we started weaning our babies on fire we've bine afraid of the dark due to the fact that our cavemen minds are thinking "oh christ it's dark..I sure hope no wolves or godzilla's pop out of the dark.. gonk "
he may not be *trying* to mess his kid up, but calling ones child an a** because of a fear is pretty messed up. it could very well keep a child from being able to approach his/her parent when they need to for other things. I suppose the concept of 'compassion' isnt manly enough for some men. as if to be compassionate equals a weakness some how. kids need compassion and understanding from their parents (both, preferrably) as well as lessons in being tough when one has to.
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Posted: Mon Aug 20, 2007 10:27 am
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lilraine MiStiEM00K everyone is afraid of something. . . i'm afraid of dolls and i'm cleithrophobic as in im afraid of being locked in small spaces. isnt that claustrophobia? that may be what you meant.. but there are SO many phobias out there I wanted to make sure lol lol no claustrophobia is a fear of small spaces cleithrophobia is a fear of being locked in small spaces there is a difference because claustrophobics would be afraid of their closet whereas i have no problem because my closet doesn't have a lock.
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Posted: Mon Aug 20, 2007 4:22 pm
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MiStiEM00K lilraine MiStiEM00K everyone is afraid of something. . . i'm afraid of dolls and i'm cleithrophobic as in im afraid of being locked in small spaces. isnt that claustrophobia? that may be what you meant.. but there are SO many phobias out there I wanted to make sure lol lol no claustrophobia is a fear of small spaces cleithrophobia is a fear of being locked in small spaces there is a difference because claustrophobics would be afraid of their closet whereas i have no problem because my closet doesn't have a lock.
lol see? learn something new everyday. thanx biggrin
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Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 10:18 am
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lilraine Gopher dude lilraine The Jabborwock Does fear of the drak maake you foolish?I think i have nyctophobia(fear of the dark)and my father says im an a** for being afraid.. you're NOT an a** for being afraid. I think it's terrible that your father said this to you. there are few things to me that are worse than a parent ruining his/her childs self-esteem. everyone has fears to one degree to another. I dont think you're foolish. a LOT of people fear the dark. and you may grow out of it. if it is a true phobia, then eventually you might wanna see a psychologist about it. you are not foolish in my book, hon. If he isn't trying to ruin his child hood (unless he's got like a record or somthing whatever this is one case I'll make of it what it seems like) he's just telling him to hoist up his go-nads and be a manly man and go kick his fears a**. It's good to be afraid of things it gives us manly men a rush of adrenaline in order to kick said scary things a** it's a natural part of life...I was once afraid of the dark and then I figured "it's just dark..you know this is pretty good light to sleep in!" Humans are sort of naturaly afraid of the dark. Ever since we started weaning our babies on fire we've bine afraid of the dark due to the fact that our cavemen minds are thinking "oh christ it's dark..I sure hope no wolves or godzilla's pop out of the dark.. gonk " he may not be *trying* to mess his kid up, but calling ones child an a** because of a fear is pretty messed up. it could very well keep a child from being able to approach his/her parent when they need to for other things. I suppose the concept of 'compassion' isnt manly enough for some men. as if to be compassionate equals a weakness some how. kids need compassion and understanding from their parents (both, preferrably) as well as lessons in being tough when one has to. second'd a kid needs understanding from their parents as well as a lesson but then again you can't be too harsh about it my mom always had a problem with the fact that i'd rather play with cars than dolls but she understood that i was afraid of dolls and that it was my fathers particular fault and she shouldn't blame me for my "issues."
oh and no problem =P
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Posted: Sat Sep 29, 2007 10:44 pm
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 9:57 pm
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