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Make him get his a** out here and clean it up himself! |
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Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 9:33 am
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Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 12:33 pm
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From a male (who is often unemployed)'s perspective:
Your patience during rough times ought to be appreciated.
If you're still interested in this guy, then just box his stuff up and move it aside (if he doesn't understand that you need to clear up the space for the room mate and gets upset, then forget him... you're already doing too much work having to clean up after the guy - and I should know, I am always way too slow on all my cleaning projects!)
If you're sick of him, which it kind of sounds like you are, I don't think you could get the message to him any clearer than leaving his stuff out on the lawn. When you do that, though, you've pretty much announced, loudly, that the relationship is over and good riddance.
If you want to get a message through to him that he needs to clean up his stuff more and you want him to take more responsibility for his mess, go with the boxing his stuff up and then telling him he should have moved his butt sooner approach. He won't like it, but it's probably the only way he'll understand (he will also have an excuse... I always have one anyway, which you will have to let him know won't fly. Don't worry, I always make an effort to make it up to my wife... IF SHE GIVES ME A CHANCE TO DO SO! We're slow on the uptake, but we often mean well, us males.)
So, that's it, I think. If you want to keep him around, if he's worth the trouble, just box his stuff up and get ready to kick his butt. If he's not, toss it out and say "so long, sad sack."
It's a rough time financially all around. Heck, I don't know why my wife puts up with me but I'm glad she does. I better go clean something, now.
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Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 1:26 pm
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