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Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 1:25 pm
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Hello everyone I hope you can help me. Thank you. Hello. My name is Alicia (17 years old) I am going to be a senior in High School this year. I know this may sound old and stupid but oh well. My goal for the past few years is to try and get a boyfriend. I don't know what I am doing wrong. I put on makeup but not to crazy. I am smart, funny, love sports, video games, everything. And yes I am very very shy when I first start class but give me a few weeks and I will be better. I don't know what to do. Almost all the guys in my High School go for the sluts, ones with low cut clothing and crap. And I am sorry but I am not going to change myself that much just to get a guy. But I don't know, again. I think the one thing that kills me the most is that when I walk around school I see other couples holding hands, kissing, hugging, and more. I get so lonely T.T I wish that, that was me. ME! T.T So please could you just tell me something or anything. I really don't know. If you can't then thats fine. I just think I needed to write it down or something. But thank you everyone. Thank you.
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Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 11:03 pm
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kittycatsesshomaru Hello everyone I hope you can help me. Thank you. Hello. My name is Alicia (17 years old) I am going to be a senior in High School this year. I know this may sound old and stupid but oh well. My goal for the past few years is to try and get a boyfriend. I don't know what I am doing wrong. I put on makeup but not to crazy. I am smart, funny, love sports, video games, everything. And yes I am very very shy when I first start class but give me a few weeks and I will be better. I don't know what to do. Almost all the guys in my High School go for the sluts, ones with low cut clothing and crap. And I am sorry but I am not going to change myself that much just to get a guy. But I don't know, again. I think the one thing that kills me the most is that when I walk around school I see other couples holding hands, kissing, hugging, and more. I get so lonely T.T I wish that, that was me. ME! T.T So please could you just tell me something or anything. I really don't know. If you can't then thats fine. I just think I needed to write it down or something. But thank you everyone. Thank you.
I know youre type...
Well, most depends on how you treat most men around school. If you have some guy friends it can make other guys like you more. If you have many friends at all guys will come to you cause many others like you too. Now, dont take this too hard, if you arent that pretty than it becomes 5x harder to get a guy. Depending on how pretty/popular/and smart you are will be the guys that are LOOKING FOR YOU! Depend on what guy you WANT! You can basically pick a guy out of anything you want without changing anything about you. It gets complicated to explain in one post so pm me later. What kind of guy are you looking for? Be as specific as possible! Please message me I would love you help you.
EDIT: Dont worry im ALWAYS online!
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Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 12:03 am
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kittycatsesshomaru Hello everyone I hope you can help me. Thank you. Hello. My name is Alicia (17 years old) I am going to be a senior in High School this year. I know this may sound old and stupid but oh well. My goal for the past few years is to try and get a boyfriend. I don't know what I am doing wrong. I put on makeup but not to crazy. I am smart, funny, love sports, video games, everything. And yes I am very very shy when I first start class but give me a few weeks and I will be better. I don't know what to do. Almost all the guys in my High School go for the sluts, ones with low cut clothing and crap. And I am sorry but I am not going to change myself that much just to get a guy. But I don't know, again. I think the one thing that kills me the most is that when I walk around school I see other couples holding hands, kissing, hugging, and more. I get so lonely T.T I wish that, that was me. ME! T.T So please could you just tell me something or anything. I really don't know. If you can't then thats fine. I just think I needed to write it down or something. But thank you everyone. Thank you.
May I ask why you really want a boyfriend? It won't change who you are one bit. If you just want companionship, boys can be your friends without you forcing yourself into a romantic attachment.
Still, if you really do want a boyfriend, my advice is that it's not worth changing youself for any guy. If you have to pretend around them, someday you'll slip up and then both of you will be unhappy. Still, be friendly, take an interest in what guys do and learn things about them. Make yourself approachable. Guys do like it when girls dress nicely and take care of themselves, but it doesn't have to be in the most up-to-date fashions or like a prostitute. Smile at people when you see them around. Also, if you treat your friends well (male or female), you'll gain the reputation of being caring and so people will want to be with you and get to know you. Most importantly (although the way I'm saying sounds really cheesy) being yourself will attract the kind of guy who's right for you.
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Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 1:06 pm
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Squirty_chan kittycatsesshomaru Hello everyone I hope you can help me. Thank you. Hello. My name is Alicia (17 years old) I am going to be a senior in High School this year. I know this may sound old and stupid but oh well. My goal for the past few years is to try and get a boyfriend. I don't know what I am doing wrong. I put on makeup but not to crazy. I am smart, funny, love sports, video games, everything. And yes I am very very shy when I first start class but give me a few weeks and I will be better. I don't know what to do. Almost all the guys in my High School go for the sluts, ones with low cut clothing and crap. And I am sorry but I am not going to change myself that much just to get a guy. But I don't know, again. I think the one thing that kills me the most is that when I walk around school I see other couples holding hands, kissing, hugging, and more. I get so lonely T.T I wish that, that was me. ME! T.T So please could you just tell me something or anything. I really don't know. If you can't then thats fine. I just think I needed to write it down or something. But thank you everyone. Thank you. May I ask why you really want a boyfriend? It won't change who you are one bit. If you just want companionship, boys can be your friends without you forcing yourself into a romantic attachment. Still, if you really do want a boyfriend, my advice is that it's not worth changing youself for any guy. If you have to pretend around them, someday you'll slip up and then both of you will be unhappy. Still, be friendly, take an interest in what guys do and learn things about them. Make yourself approachable. Guys do like it when girls dress nicely and take care of themselves, but it doesn't have to be in the most up-to-date fashions or like a prostitute. Smile at people when you see them around. Also, if you treat your friends well (male or female), you'll gain the reputation of being caring and so people will want to be with you and get to know you. Most importantly (although the way I'm saying sounds really cheesy) being yourself will attract the kind of guy who's right for you.
Well to tell the truth, I have never ever had a boyfriend. Back in middle school I wasn't really looking or wanted one at the time. But then my younger sister who is 15 got a boyfriend and I don't know I felt left out you could say. Then of course all my other friends got them and so on. I guess I felt it was time that I should try. Thank you though for helping me. I guess in the next year coming up I can try and be more open and try new things 3nodding
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Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 1:14 pm
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L_Skeith kittycatsesshomaru Hello everyone I hope you can help me. Thank you. Hello. My name is Alicia (17 years old) I am going to be a senior in High School this year. I know this may sound old and stupid but oh well. My goal for the past few years is to try and get a boyfriend. I don't know what I am doing wrong. I put on makeup but not to crazy. I am smart, funny, love sports, video games, everything. And yes I am very very shy when I first start class but give me a few weeks and I will be better. I don't know what to do. Almost all the guys in my High School go for the sluts, ones with low cut clothing and crap. And I am sorry but I am not going to change myself that much just to get a guy. But I don't know, again. I think the one thing that kills me the most is that when I walk around school I see other couples holding hands, kissing, hugging, and more. I get so lonely T.T I wish that, that was me. ME! T.T So please could you just tell me something or anything. I really don't know. If you can't then thats fine. I just think I needed to write it down or something. But thank you everyone. Thank you. I know youre type... Well, most depends on how you treat most men around school. If you have some guy friends it can make other guys like you more. If you have many friends at all guys will come to you cause many others like you too. Now, dont take this too hard, if you arent that pretty than it becomes 5x harder to get a guy. Depending on how pretty/popular/and smart you are will be the guys that are LOOKING FOR YOU! Depend on what guy you WANT! You can basically pick a guy out of anything you want without changing anything about you. It gets complicated to explain in one post so pm me later. What kind of guy are you looking for? Be as specific as possible! Please message me I would love you help you. EDIT: Dont worry im ALWAYS online!
For me I am just looking for a nice, sweet guy. Who is smart, funny, likes some things that I like to do. *video games, sports, just having fun* and Protective. I love protective. 3nodding Umm the pretty/popular/smart thing I don't know. I think I am ok looking not fall down died type of pretty, but ok. I have a few pictures on my profile. Popular not really. Meaning everyone knows me in my little group of friends and maybe a few other people but not really. Smart, I know I am that. Kinda a nerd with study but thats ok sweatdrop Thank you so much for the help. You guys have helped a lot. I just now know that I have to be a little bit more open, and try new things. Yup Yup. Thank you so much. 3nodding
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Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 1:28 pm
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Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 1:34 pm
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Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 6:43 pm
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Posted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 1:58 pm
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Posted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 4:37 pm
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Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2008 9:20 pm
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Posted: Tue Aug 19, 2008 10:24 am
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Posted: Tue Aug 19, 2008 1:00 pm
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Posted: Wed Aug 20, 2008 2:37 pm
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Posted: Fri Aug 22, 2008 4:12 pm
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