What is better? Going for looks or going for personality?

[Xx velvet petals xX]

What is better to go for in a person? Looks or inner beauty? I just wanted to see what the overall populace opinion is.. ninja Be truthful!! ninja  

[queen of qeeks]

Without a doubt, personality. Everyone gets fat and ugly in the end. The most important thing to have is someone you can laugh with.  

[Taxi Mama]

The most amazing thing about love... The person you love becomes beautiful to you! I am 40 pounds overweight, wear tank tops & men's shorts all the time, no makeup, with frizzy hair besides. And yet, my husband calls me Sexy, Gorgeous, Beautiful, etc... and I catch him staring at me googly eyed a couple of times a week, so I don't think he's fibbing. As I said, amazing!  

[Angel Of Sol]

Inner beauty and personality all the way. If the can make me happy and laugh, then he is good in my book... wink 3nodding  

[Shenyu]

Well, definitely the look is important for a person to choose, but in my opinion you do not only chose a person bei the looks, but the he/she behaves. And THAT is part of the personality.
So I think the personality is not only from a moral point of view more important, but also from a logic one.  

[freestyle_skater]

don't judge a book by its cover. nobody wants to be with a person who only thinks of the outside.  

[Tess A Tigre]

ok - at the moment it is 100% personality. And I find it is interesting that only women have posted in here! Hmmmm....we ladies do not look at the outer beauty (tho Brad Pitt can eat crackers in my bed anytime he wants to) of a man but the inner glow. Men on the otherhand look at boobs and a** THEN if you pass that mark they may look deeper. Sorry, Guys! You know it is true!!  

[KaShash]

Taxi Mama

The most amazing thing about love... The person you love becomes beautiful to you! I am 40 pounds overweight, wear tank tops & men's shorts all the time, no makeup, with frizzy hair besides. And yet, my husband calls me Sexy, Gorgeous, Beautiful, etc... and I catch him staring at me googly eyed a couple of times a week, so I don't think he's fibbing. As I said, amazing!

I envy you!! gonk  

[Patron with a Mission]

I'd rather go for personality than looks. I've done it twice and both are still friends with me. One is a looker, the other was always beautiful in my eyes, but not in others...but that is for another day's tale.

You can have Prince Charming, but he might be the most vain person in the universe. Then what? Or he'll mistreat your friends...or worse yet...you.

You can have the worst person in terms of looks, but they will be honorable, loving, and treat you and everyone well.

True, both are generalizations, but in my age range [21-29], that's how it seems to be.  

[Zealand_Aquarius]

It's personality for me, what is the point in been with some wonderful handsome person if they are as dull as dish water? Or turns out to be the most horrible person you’ve ever met? No I much rather have the not so drop handsome guy that has a good personality and isn’t dull or horrible.

It’s nice to see other people saying this as well on here.

 

[Xx velvet petals xX]

Tess A Tigre

ok - at the moment it is 100% personality. And I find it is interesting that only women have posted in here! Hmmmm....we ladies do not look at the outer beauty (tho Brad Pitt can eat crackers in my bed anytime he wants to) of a man but the inner glow. Men on the otherhand look at boobs and a** THEN if you pass that mark they may look deeper. Sorry, Guys! You know it is true!!

Um im going to have to agree with you on the Brad Pitt comment (yumm rofl ) For me its the personality or inner beauty, lets face it the outside looks will fade. If you go for looks it will eventually disapoint. One day you will just be sitting on the couch and think.. whoa what happened to you? Since I have recently started dating again I think this time around im learning my lesson. Inner beauty doesnt dissapoint.. Ok, so far anyway  

[Xx velvet petals xX]

biggrin Reading every ones posts has been really interesting, Ive always wondered what truly mattered. Its like when you meet people in real life you unconsiously make a decision on whether or not you think that they are attractive, we dont realize it but we do. But the more we interact with them we change our minds, if they are absolutely adorable make us laugh and we completely understand them, they become more attractive. And same goes vice versa, they can really look like a greek god but if they are as smart as a rock.. well then we move on. All these posts are really insightful
  heart Thanks everyone!!  heart  

[Xx velvet petals xX]

KaShash

Taxi Mama

The most amazing thing about love... The person you love becomes beautiful to you! I am 40 pounds overweight, wear tank tops & men's shorts all the time, no makeup, with frizzy hair besides. And yet, my husband calls me Sexy, Gorgeous, Beautiful, etc... and I catch him staring at me googly eyed a couple of times a week, so I don't think he's fibbing. As I said, amazing!

I envy you!! gonk

You lucky, lucky woman!!!! 4laugh  

[Xx velvet petals xX]

Taxi Mama

The most amazing thing about love... The person you love becomes beautiful to you! I am 40 pounds overweight, wear tank tops & men's shorts all the time, no makeup, with frizzy hair besides. And yet, my husband calls me Sexy, Gorgeous, Beautiful, etc... and I catch him staring at me googly eyed a couple of times a week, so I don't think he's fibbing. As I said, amazing!

You lucky, lucky Woman!! 4laugh