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Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2008 8:09 pm
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Posted: Sun Sep 28, 2008 2:20 pm
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Posted: Sun Sep 28, 2008 4:44 pm
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I spanked my children in private away from the others only if the other forms of punnishment did not work.. I found that sitting them at the dinning room table and having them read out loud to me my college surveying books, the ones that teach me he technique and science of accurately determining the terrestrial or three-dimensional space position of points and the distances and angles between them. These points are usually, but not exclusively, associated with positions on the surface of the Earth, and are often used to establish land maps and boundaries for ownership or governmental purposes. In order to accomplish their objective, surveyors use elements of geometry, engineering, trigonometry, mathematics, physics, and law, got the point across that disobeying us rendered spare time useless. For an extreme offense they had to reads 80 pages. Believe it, all my kids were 4.0 kids.
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Posted: Wed Oct 01, 2008 2:43 pm
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Posted: Wed Oct 22, 2008 6:56 pm
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Posted: Thu Oct 23, 2008 2:39 pm
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Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2009 1:59 pm
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Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2009 3:52 pm
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MHHornfreak So i saw a thread in the main forums about kids behavior these days and thought about the old days when it was okay to hit your children. I know this is a bit of a touchy subject to some people but i think it helped keep me in line when my parents would threaten to hit me. I just want to know other people's opinions on this subject.
Personally, as I have stated elsewhere, I am an example of what happens when parents take it to the extreme. I can't even look at one, or even hear it jingle without running out of the room because of what my parents did.
As others have posted, moderation is key. If your kid/teen is caught stealing, then by all means, bring it out, spank them, take their allowance away. But for minor things, such as forgetting to toss out the trash? No. Do not under any circumstances, hit your child for those little things. Do not take your anger out on them. Especially do not hit them if you are under the influence, on medication, etc.
Whatever personal problems parents have, and I'm sure there are plenty, there is no excuse for overdoing it. There is no excuse for abuse.
So my point is, provided there is proper reason, it's okay. Otherwise...no...just...no.
EDIT: I just remembed. Out of the three of us, [I have another brother and half-sister] I turned out the most successful and most motivated. So...I guess out of abuse came something good. stressed
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Posted: Sun Jan 18, 2009 1:50 am
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Posted: Sun Jan 18, 2009 5:51 am
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