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Posted: Mon Oct 20, 2008 8:40 am
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Posted: Mon Oct 20, 2008 10:48 am
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Posted: Mon Oct 20, 2008 10:55 am
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Posted: Wed Oct 22, 2008 10:50 pm
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Posted: Thu Oct 23, 2008 6:28 am
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First of all, guys have a LOT of ways for getting around OBSESSIVE girlfriends. Don't make him get to the point where he buys a phone to talk to you on, and a phone to talk to the rest of the women in his life. Are you going to ask that he block calls from his female relatives? Why not? You don't know them. They're COMPETITION, Right?
Ok, now that you've had a bit of a reality check, listen to this. If you're putting that much restraint on him, he's that much more likely to leave you. If you use an invisible fence, he's more likely to stay in your yard than he would with a rope he can gnaw through. If you are in a good relationship, why ruin it with petty drama? Is he the guy you're going to marry? If you don't feel that he is yet, then don't try to enforce rules on who he talks to as if you're married.
Heck, I ended up in a relationship after a 1-night stand, and I'm STILL with the guy. We're even talking about wedding plans, after we reach the milestone we've decided upon for that. So don't try to say that someone can't get to know a person in three months. If you couldn't get to know a person in three months, how could people who move around a lot get by? My entire family moves at least once every 2 years, and that's just the average of while I've been a member.
Calm down and let him talk to her when he wants, or, he might choose to move wherever she is. Don't give him a reason to think of you as "too much trouble" or "too high maintenance" because when you do, he'll ditch you like a bad habit.
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Posted: Thu Oct 23, 2008 8:57 am
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Posted: Fri Oct 24, 2008 5:58 am
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Posted: Sun Nov 02, 2008 8:27 am
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Posted: Sun Nov 02, 2008 5:03 pm
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Posted: Tue Nov 04, 2008 7:26 am
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Posted: Tue Nov 18, 2008 8:50 pm
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Posted: Fri Nov 21, 2008 7:02 pm
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Posted: Fri Nov 21, 2008 8:32 pm
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Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 12:19 pm
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