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have you found your lost love? |
no desire to |
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yes, we've remained friends |
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no, but i want to |
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goldalonies |
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Posted: Fri Oct 17, 2008 8:59 pm
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Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 7:20 pm
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I am very careful about using the word "love", as it is thrown around so much in situations that it does not apply to. For the sake of this thread, I will say that once I got into contact with such a person a few years ago... it was someone I was convinced I loved in high school. I had sent them a letter to tell them how life was going for me and let them know my email address so maybe we could chat online. For a long time I went without a response, but one day out of the blue, they sent me a brief email about how things were going for them... apparently they were engaged now. At the time I was not with someone and had some hope of perhaps getting with this crush of mine, and finding out they were engaged was incredibly surreal and heartbreaking at the same time.
We chatted via instant messenger for a couple of weeks or so, though their fiancé did not seem to take too kindly to it. Apparently they had spoken of me before and their fiancé knew quite a bit about me. I talked with the fiancé a bit as well {probably more than the crush due to their partner limiting their access to the computer}. Well, one day while the crush was being forced off by their partner, they sent me one last message saying to use the clown emoticon {this was yahoo messenger} because their partner didn't like it and "it would be funny". As I spoke with the fiancé, they started insulting me and attacking my character, which they had not previously done in our conversations, so I decided to use the clown face... they instantly signed off {or blocked me} and I've never spoken to either of them since.
I did read somewhat recently that apparently my crush shot a cop and is in jail now, though... so I think I'm better off blaugh
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Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 7:58 am
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Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 11:24 am
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Posted: Tue Nov 18, 2008 9:22 pm
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Posted: Fri Nov 21, 2008 2:01 pm
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I broke up with my high school boyfriend a year after I graduated (he was still in high school). I was really really done with him, but he was obviously not done with me. He would visit my mom a couple times a year, to keep up with what I was doing.
After college I got married, and he stopped coming round; eventually I got a wedding invitation from him. Five years later, I moved back to the area, and we ran into each other a couple of times. It was awkward, because the chemistry was still there, but neither of us did anything stupid, so it was okay. Then I moved out of state, and he lost track of me.
He emailed my sister 3 years ago, begging to be put back in contact with me. In the mean time I'd been divorced and remarried. Now he emails me once or twice a year. He wrote about when he and my dad found each other waiting outside the same courtroom, and had a nice chat. He seemed really surprised my dad had never told me. I don't know, it's a little sad, I guess. But I get the feeling he just wants to know I'm still out here, some little piece of his childhood that's alive and well.
Maybe this isn't what you had in mind. But it's what happened to me.
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Posted: Sat Nov 29, 2008 8:12 am
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