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Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 7:12 am
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Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 9:10 am
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Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 3:00 pm
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Well, as long as you acknowledge the differences between you and are okay with not changing them, it's totally okay to be friends accross any ages. But if the differences make you feel like there is a permanent gap, that's a warning the relationship will be too unequal for a marriage. I'm talking about experience, achievement, respect, income, health problems, etc. Those are very individual, but tend to accumulate with age.
Also, social norms change with time, so what seems normal from your childhood might seem eccentric or even extreme to him (or visaversa). Morals, values, expectations of children, education, church-going. All these vary over the whole population, but do key on age to some extent.
My rule of thumb was that I'd date a man 10% younger to 20% older. But in retrospect, I see that the best matches were much closer.
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Posted: Tue Nov 11, 2008 3:29 pm
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Posted: Tue Nov 11, 2008 10:03 pm
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Posted: Mon Nov 17, 2008 7:10 pm
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Posted: Tue Nov 18, 2008 8:13 pm
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Posted: Tue Nov 18, 2008 10:04 pm
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Posted: Thu Nov 20, 2008 3:41 pm
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Posted: Fri Nov 21, 2008 7:11 pm
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Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2008 5:54 am
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Posted: Tue Dec 16, 2008 8:16 pm
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Posted: Thu Dec 18, 2008 8:24 pm
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Posted: Fri Dec 19, 2008 11:58 pm
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