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Posted: Fri Feb 20, 2009 12:53 pm
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There is this guy. Hes 21. (im 22) And we've worked together for a long while now. He's such a good friend. He's my mentor in the chef industry and helps me a lot. We hang out, go out and just be friends. We go to arcades and silly stuff. He'd give me advice and I'd help, and vice versa. I thought for a while he might have had a crush on me, but I pushed past it. He has a GF and shes so sweet, and shes about 2 months pregnant with his child and they are pretty serious, even though they haven't been going out for awhile( i was really mad at him when he told me she was pregnant. I was like..."why werent you careful damn it. But yeling won't fix whats happened, so my best bet is to stick by them) . I know they didn't mean to get pregnant but it happened. And I helped Them when their parents got mad and I stood by them. Thats what friends do. So tonight he and I were texting back and fourth as we normally do. "how was work?" "Oh man it was hell" Simple things. Then i get the, him: "So i have something to tell you" Me: "oh don't tell me its twins" I tease him about that because his GF is a twin, and his mother is a Twin. "Lol no, I know this comes at a way f'd up time, but i've tried to tell you for awhile, but I really like you. And i think thats why things have been weird between me and "insert GFs name here""
So I'm shocked and try and handle things best I can. Please help me. I don't like him that way. He's only a friend, and I don't want his GF to hate me, or for it to be weird between us. Just help me. Any advice will do.
I have no interest in doing anything but friendship with him. I have a guy I like.
I just don't want to ruin his realationship, or the friendship ya know? I want him to stay with her. And Be a dad. And I'd still like to be a friend. But god what do i do. Should I stay his friend? Or run. Or I dunno. Please help. I need mature answers. He's like my brother so this is so weeeird. ug.
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Posted: Fri Feb 20, 2009 1:10 pm
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Posted: Fri Feb 20, 2009 4:00 pm
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Posted: Fri Feb 20, 2009 10:23 pm
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