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A healthy relationship goes hand in hand with a healthy sex frequency. Love making plays a very important role in a relationship, which can help to maintain the passion that a couple used to enjoy.
There are a lot of debates out there; discussing what is the ideal love making frequency that a couple should have. So how many times do you want to make love with your partner in a week? Sometimes, before you can answer this question, you will tend to ask yourself "how often your partner does wants to make love with you?"
There is no such thing as a fixed number of times that a couple should make love. Making love should come naturally and passionately. Early in a relationship, I believe that there is a high degree of passion and frequency, because of the factor that both of you want to explore each other more.
When both of you are very comfortable and used to each other, there will be a case where one partner fail to perform in sex, the frequency may start to drop.
What you can do here is to talk to your partner about it. Tell him or her that you feel that the love making frequency is not as high as both of you used to enjoy. Find out what are the problems behind it. It can be one of you is just too tired after a day of work. Therefore, before you make any conclusion, make sure that you have a heart-to-heart talk with your partner about it.
Once you have found out what the problems are, assure your partner that you will try your very best to solve them, as well as get the commitment of your partner to assist you to solve them together.
The key here is to be open and truthful about it. When you find that the frequency has dropped, instead of guessing or ignoring the problem, face it. Only couples who talk about the intimacy in their relationships are in a much better position to deal with any potential conflict that will develop from time-to-time.
There are a lot of debates out there; discussing what is the ideal love making frequency that a couple should have. So how many times do you want to make love with your partner in a week? Sometimes, before you can answer this question, you will tend to ask yourself "how often your partner does wants to make love with you?"
There is no such thing as a fixed number of times that a couple should make love. Making love should come naturally and passionately. Early in a relationship, I believe that there is a high degree of passion and frequency, because of the factor that both of you want to explore each other more.
When both of you are very comfortable and used to each other, there will be a case where one partner fail to perform in sex, the frequency may start to drop.
What you can do here is to talk to your partner about it. Tell him or her that you feel that the love making frequency is not as high as both of you used to enjoy. Find out what are the problems behind it. It can be one of you is just too tired after a day of work. Therefore, before you make any conclusion, make sure that you have a heart-to-heart talk with your partner about it.
Once you have found out what the problems are, assure your partner that you will try your very best to solve them, as well as get the commitment of your partner to assist you to solve them together.
The key here is to be open and truthful about it. When you find that the frequency has dropped, instead of guessing or ignoring the problem, face it. Only couples who talk about the intimacy in their relationships are in a much better position to deal with any potential conflict that will develop from time-to-time.
