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Posted: Mon Jan 25, 2010 7:09 pm
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Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 5:46 pm
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You put a lot out there and I'm not sure what specifically you're asking about.
As far as sex drive is concerned, I personally don't find anything wrong with having a lower one especially if you're single. I would only find it important to have an elevated sex drive if you were looking for the kind of relationship that would require it {that is, highly physical}, or you were trying to have children {which you have previously expressed no interest in}. In matters like this, you shouldn't concern yourself over what you think others would consider "normal" and just go with what works for you. If there is no reason for you to have a higher sex drive, then don't let it bother you that yours is low.
While having a higher one can sometimes play a part in winning over the opposite sex {or sometimes same sex... depends on the preferences}, having a lower one can also enable you to build an emotional foundation before you take a relationship to the physical level. Being too aggressive can at times push people away, as well... but then again, so can being too passive. Finding a balance is always best. Of course, if you are not trying to get into a relationship, then this isn't really important at the moment.
Aside from relationships, having a lower sex drive can also enable you to better concentrate on other things in life, such as work or studying. It is also considered a good thing if you are religious.
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Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 7:16 pm
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Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 11:33 pm
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Posted: Wed Jan 27, 2010 8:48 am
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Hi I know this is more a guy topic, but I have to interject. I am a woman. I hope it's ok. If not then pm me and I will delete it.
Are you asking this because it is bothering you personally? or because you are trying to measure yourself by others? Everyone is different. You can't be thinking "my friends are sexually active, I'm not, so something must be wrong with me" that's not right.
I am married 33yrs come April. We have sex pretty much every other day. It is one of my favorite things to do. I love it, I love the male form. If I could it would be morning, noon, night. If I compared myself to other women, there would be something wrong with me!
If it is something that is bothering you, then I think you're going in the right direction. Getting a check up, doing blood work, maybe it is a hormone imbalance. If so that can be fixed. Good luck to ya.
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Posted: Wed Jan 27, 2010 1:41 pm
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Posted: Sat Jan 30, 2010 9:45 am
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Posted: Sun Mar 21, 2010 4:06 pm
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Posted: Mon Mar 22, 2010 9:39 am
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Posted: Mon Mar 22, 2010 3:09 pm
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Posted: Mon Mar 22, 2010 5:14 pm
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